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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being Left Out |
| TaoDreams |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 23
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| She asked if I wanted to hang out Friday, so I drove and hung out with her. Every now and then she would give an example in her life for about -why- I didn't matter whether it was on purpose or not. We live 3 hours from each other. She was driving into town with her Mother and she said there was not... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being Left Out |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2015, 4:03 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I'm currently grieving the loss of someone I thought was a friend. It feels like she literally just pressed a DELETE button. She's been in my life for a year. I'm 25 years old. She was my first kiss, the first person I felt like I could be naked with. She was the first person I was able to love. I'm... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being Left Out |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Added reply. I guess she wasn't a friend. I told her how I felt, she told me I wasn't worth anything, that her husband had worked hard for his position and that she would not let me come in and ruin their image. That I was a poor deluded creature and that she was going to go because she felt sorry f... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Becoming too attached to people |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 10:17 am
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Replies: 24
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| No, it's not just you. I struggle with the same issue. To the point where I always get hurt. I'm too 'intense' for people. And the one person I am not too intense for makes a point to remind me I have no place in her world. The attachment I feel to her is incredibly painful to the point where I have... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being Left Out |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 9:41 am
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Replies: 23
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| -My problem isn't that people don't like me. Plenty of people like me I just can't connect and relate the way I did with her. So what I end up with is 1 million acquintances and 0 people I could trust. -Yes they are in their 20s -I'm not really sure I need advice on how to respond, since I cannot st... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being Left Out |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 23
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| 1. I've witnessed it and their behaviour and have the text messages. In most of them she's saying something nice or mentioning me in passing and they're responses are very much anti-me. She won't argue she'll just say ok to respect them, and has I've seen at times tried to say that I'm nice when you... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being Left Out |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 8:01 pm
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Replies: 23
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| So I have a friend, the only friend I have who is in person. Our relationship is somewhat complicated to explain but for summary purposes I will call her my best friend. And despite her flaws, she has been a really good friend to me. But there are a few kinks that make our friendship painful. Since ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Anyone else Lonely? |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2013, 7:47 am
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Replies: 3
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| I'm starting to think loneliness is a universal constant. That was very poignantly written. I'm not the most emotionally attuned person, but writing helps me sometimes. I won't know exactly how I feel, but negative emotions to me are a weight/ache in my chest. Finding a way to transfer it into word... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Had a meltdown at work |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 8:11 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I have read your posts very carefully. Something you said, "I hope I have the courage to see through with dignity." especially sat with me for a while. In my head I keep repeating it, because that's what it is isn't it? When something happens that brings us shame and embarrassment, no matter how muc... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I made my mother cry |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 7:59 pm
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Replies: 2
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| I have felt that way. I once nearly cracked/broke the ribcage of a very beautiful and loving person because I was angry, this same person suffered jaw injuries that caused her to lose her hearing (temporarily) during one of my angry outbursts...I have never forgiven myself and have always hated myse... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Wanting to retire from WP.net |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,879
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| For these reasons: 1) No GF, too many people have spurned me....... and everyone here has one, I think. 2) My sis is getting married, and the fact that I am still single makes me feel jealous. 3) I just plain suck at socializing, even here..... So, if anybody needs me, good luck finding me. -I don'... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Anyone else Lonely? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 10:00 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 678
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| Last night I was laying in bed. I realized when I am extremely happy...I have no one to share it with, at least no one who cares. When I do have something to be happy about I am either too happy about it and repeat things again and again over the excitement because I can't verbalize...or know the ot... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Volatile Explosive Anger & Depression |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2013, 2:51 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,437
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| I could survive being homeless...I already have a mapped out plan. But I could not survive without my car (for various reasons I will spare the elaboration on) and figuring out the income I need to just pay for the insurance, registration and any future repairs/maintenance is something I am not havi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Volatile Explosive Anger & Depression |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2013, 2:18 pm
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Replies: 7
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| Homelessness is the option when there are no options left to you. You speak of having "your area". Do you have a quiet room, or place near your home that is specifically yours? If not, what if you could map out your personal zone? Somewhere that no one can intrude on you, and no one can dictate abo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What do you do when you're not interested in anything? |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2013, 2:01 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 14,796
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| I have energy, at least I don't feel like I have low energy. If I find something appealing, I'm ready to go do it, I just don't find anything appealing at the moment. I've never been the kind of person that does something just to do something. That just seems incredibly stupid to me. I feel no incl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What do you do when you're not interested in anything? |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2013, 1:55 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 14,796
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| I know this seems weird for an aspie, but I'm kind of in a rut. I'm not really interested in anything at the moment (it's been a long moment, unfortunately). I just sort of lost interest in the stuff I used to be very interested in and now I'm really bored. I go to work, come home from work, watch ... |
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