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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "I don't like you anymore"

Kalei
Posted: 27 Sep 2021, 9:55 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 966
I asked what I could do to solve the problems, and it's so mind boggling. He seems to feel attacked by the question He answers questions extremely vague, sometimes he seems to answer a totally different question, and when I ask again he lashes out. He's not emotionally present at all. He's not comm...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "I don't like you anymore"

Kalei
Posted: 26 Sep 2021, 3:04 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 966
I asked about his needs and got as an answer that I don’t care about him, I am selfish, I am annoying, I'm a bad housekeeper, I am obnoxious among a few others. This isn't specific. What does he find annoying? What does he find selfish? etc. Also, he answered this question in the negative - not in ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "I don't like you anymore"

Kalei
Posted: 26 Sep 2021, 2:03 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 966
It feels surreal to me, considering I spent 18 years with what seems like a different person, just the last half year things started changing for the worse, but this extreme downturn still feels jarringly sudden and unexpected. Have you pointed out the sudden change and asked him something like &qu...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "I don't like you anymore"

Kalei
Posted: 26 Sep 2021, 1:56 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 966
You would probably have to update your skills first, e.g. by taking some courses online. Probably a good thing for you to do anyway (even if you were not even remotely entertaining the idea of leaving), now that your daughter is almost an adult. Hopefully you'll eventually be able to find some sort...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "I don't like you anymore"

Kalei
Posted: 25 Sep 2021, 3:52 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 966
What needs does your husband have that he doesn't feel like are being met? What needs do you have that you feel like your husband isn't meeting? Good question. I asked about his needs and got as an answer that I don’t care about him, I am selfish, I am annoying, I'm a bad housekeeper, I am obnoxiou...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Toni Braxton’s son was not cured of autism and it’s irresponsible for her to say so

Kalei
Posted: 24 Sep 2021, 11:28 pm 

Replies: 117
Views: 16,962
It does not mean he is cured, but it means he passed the test/evaluation. A parent who has no autistic traits herself might interpret this as cured though.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: My gf only wants to have spontaneous unplanned sex.

Kalei
Posted: 24 Sep 2021, 11:11 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 4,387
I think women can be taken "out of the mood" very quickly. You could postpone heavy conversations. Rather than have a sex schedule - which I personally would not like either - figure out for yourselves when your schedules allow for enough time together and then try to get her into the mood...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "I don't like you anymore"

Kalei
 Post subject: "I don't like you anymore"
Posted: 24 Sep 2021, 11:01 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 966
My husband of 17 years said in a fight "I don't like you anymore" a few weeks ago and continues to act mostly normal. Occasionally he reiterates he acts normally because "he feels obligated"... I tried to ask after the fight whether he really didn't like me anymore and he doesn't...
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