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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 21 Jun 2013, 5:05 pm 

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The harder you try and push and impose yourself on her the more she will dislike you. She's already told you she's not interested. No matter what you do, that will not change. Its been 5 years. This is not a movie or a sitcom... quite honestly if she was the one posting here saying 'this guy wont l...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 21 Jun 2013, 6:41 am 

Replies: 23
Views: 2,030
The problem is you are dependent on this girl for good feelings, and when you do that then you're not really living. You need to become someone who has aspirations and goals outside of love and dating and realize what a great person you are. Women are more attracted to those who are self-sufficient...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 16 Jun 2013, 10:45 am 

Replies: 23
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You will have to be the one to ask for the date since most women don't want to put themselves out there before the man does as indicated. If you get yes, have something planned that should be fun as well. If there is an uncertain answer or no for an answer, dropping the topic of a date entirely usu...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 16 Jun 2013, 10:05 am 

Replies: 23
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I would find anything to talk about. Something that interests you, yes. Try and keep the interests conversations to a minimum of 2 minutes, and the others will ask you about these interests if they enjoy what they are hearing. People do like intelligent conversation from time to time, just not when ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 16 Jun 2013, 7:44 am 

Replies: 23
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No one should enter in to a relationship with the belief that the other person will change or improve. They are perfectly reasonable not to assume this. Also, I do suspect your idea of relationships, love and romance is a bit too thought-based. For most it is a case of "you either feel it or you don...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 15 Jun 2013, 8:32 am 

Replies: 23
Views: 2,030
It's not easy to let go. If you have already tried to ask her out and she has turned you down generally the right thing to do is walk away, and it's best for you too because otherwise you could be missing many failed opportunities. I don't know if this helps, but I when I discussed love obsessions w...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
Posted: 15 Jun 2013, 7:31 am 

Replies: 23
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It's a common problem for people with AS to develop a romantic fixation on one person that can last years and feel unable to move on, even if the feelings are never reciprocated. I think this is related to obsessional thinking, special interests, that sort of thing. It's really unhealthy to develop...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Serious Problem

Retrohead
 Post subject: Serious Problem
Posted: 14 Jun 2013, 5:49 pm 

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I have what may be a very rare problem. I have loved someone for nearly 5 years who doesn't like me and I have come to a semi-rational judgement that I may end up loving her for the rest of my life or at least for a very lengthy period of time. In this instance, I am not trying to find out how to ge...
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