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 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: do you have aspergers AND good social skills?

cogle
Posted: 17 Oct 2013, 2:23 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 15,499
I am very good at acting sociable. I have observed enough NT's to pull that off for awhile, at least until people really get to know me well. No matter how good of an actor you are though, it is going to wear you down and stress will slowly accumulate until it's no longer tolerable. It's going to be...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Don't know how to act

cogle
 Post subject: Re: Don't know how to act
Posted: 17 Oct 2013, 2:12 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 1,068
When arriving at the train station she was like: "Don't take this personally, but I'm meeting up with someone." I didn't see that one coming and do what I always do in a certain situation: This may be easier said than done, but I would just come right out and ask her out... see if she wants to go g...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: 5 ways you sabotage your love life

cogle
Posted: 16 Oct 2013, 2:06 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,519
I will also add this... if you have this reoccurring problem of staying firmly in the friendzone with girls, then read through the thousands of comments at the bottom of the article. There's some surprisingly good advice from the average fellow.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: 5 ways you sabotage your love life

cogle
Posted: 16 Oct 2013, 12:58 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,519
Surprisingly insightful. I now have 5 additional reasons to blame myself for my last relationship going to hell.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What's worse actually for a guy who is a 40 yo virgin?

cogle
Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 3:49 pm 

Replies: 47
Views: 3,383
It's better to try and fail than never try at all and wonder what if you did.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What's worse actually for a guy who is a 40 yo virgin?

cogle
Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 2:53 pm 

Replies: 47
Views: 3,383
I can't offer any advice on relating to women as I don't know any of the specifics here. I will say though, if you don't want to be considered a virgin any longer, Vegas is a good place to jet off to for a weekend to pay somebody to relieve you of that title. I am pretty sure they still have legal b...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Pursuer - Avoider relationships with an Aspie

cogle
Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 2:35 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 2,079
I'm probably an Aspie (undiagnosed, suspected for the last year), but I am finding myself in a pattern with relationships that goes back to my first experiences with girls in middle school. I can relate pretty well with women in general, although I have a lot of trouble keeping them as *just* friend...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Watsapp friend gone

cogle
Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 4:24 pm 

Replies: 3
Views: 841
Tell me about it... I think a "friendship" is going well. Bam! next day that person avoids me. Or blocks me on Facebook. Or stands me up for something we planned. No idea why. I assume I am clingy, or say the wrong thing. I don't really know though. Nobody tells me what I did wrong. It gets to the p...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you miss someone right now?

cogle
Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 4:07 pm 

Replies: 2,709
Views: 467,107
Yes.... so much that I keep chasing after any girl that vaguely reminds me of that person, to my own detriment. But is it really chasing if it's all in my head? Come to think of it, have any of my relationships been real or were they all imagined? Such are the problems I deal with daily. Maybe event...
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