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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Requiring "recharging" time after socializing? |
| melodicdaisy |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,327
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| I just have an introverted personality and as much as I do enjoy time with my friends I also like to be alone. If I don't get some time to be on my own to read, listen to music, get on the internet or whatever I find I get annoyed more easily by little things and snap at people. :/ |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Made a big mistake on Facebook |
| melodicdaisy |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 6:29 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 4,075
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I never click "like" on anything people post anymore instead if it interests me I just make a friendly comment.
Anyway the best thing to do is take a break from making posts I mean go check it if you must but instead comment and like other people's stuff and make sure it is posative comments.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lets face it some NTs do want to date an aspie! |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 6:02 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 11,632
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| So hes kinda a perfectionist and a spelling nazi, its ok im an aspie and not a spelling nazi I misspell more often these days not giving a care in the world because I know this is merely the internet and not English class and every blog I make is not some essay thats due on Thursday and expected to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lets face it some NTs do want to date an aspie! |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 10:21 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 11,632
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| I did but not because the guy was an aspie it was because I liked him. He was nice to me and I thought he liked me too. I didn't care about his autism and we are friends and his being autistic is still not a major interest of mine. The only time his being an aspie bothers me is when he becomes too c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need help: Being ignored by the autistic guy I'm dating |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 10:05 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Reading this makes me sort of sad because I too had a thing for an aspie guy friend and I'm so happy it never went any further than being friends because just a simple crush was bad enough. My friend didn't take me having a crush on him well and he completely hurt my feelings because he was so harsh... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: not sure if anyone can explain this but here goes. |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 6:48 am
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Replies: 5
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| I see. He also does other things, he has the tendency to praise other people but not me and he ignores me a lot when around other people. I try not to take these things personally we spend a lot of time together. I mean it's come to the point where it's odd when I don't hear from him for a day. I've... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: not sure if anyone can explain this but here goes. |
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Posted: 06 Feb 2014, 10:53 pm
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Replies: 5
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| It is so difficult sometimes for me to understand with my friend with AS. He is very closed off and difficult to read. He never really really opens up but on the occasion that he does he then reverts right back to being closed off and sometimes it's more than it was before. I find this exasperating.... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A little help please |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2013, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 946
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| This befriender probably has experience working with people who have an ASD and already knows that you'll not be up to too much talking so they won't likely press you for a conversation and let you set what you want to do when they come and visit. Don't let it bother you so much and try and see the ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How you discovered masturbation |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 1,404
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| I was 10 or so and discovered that the stream of water coming from the tub facet and hitting down there tickled a lot but that was all. Then around 13 or so I remembered the doing that and for whatever reason I decided to try it and I ended up having my first orgasm. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: "autism fetish" and the implications |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 242
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| Well I guess we learn something new every day. As I said, I've never seen it but I'm sure it exists and apparently it does. I have a little crush on my friend that has AS but it's not because of that it's because he happens to be a very nice guy. To be honest I don't think I have a fetish, usually t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Pushy people |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 8:21 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,688
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| When someone is pushy with me I kindly tell them the reason why I won't do it (or won't at that moment) and ask them to please stop. If they further continue with it I just keep telling them calmly that I'm not going to do it (or not do it yet and they have to wait) However I hate this sort of thing... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: "autism fetish" and the implications |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 11:38 am
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Replies: 11
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| I've never really heard of a person having a fetish for people with autism. Then again what do I know? I don't have any specific thing that turns me on other than very ordinary sexual acts. Typically I look at the qualities of the person's personality and then their appearance. If both of those thin... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do you hate when people change there last name in marriages? |
| melodicdaisy |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 11:25 am
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Replies: 15
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| Hmm I don't really care. Just think of how it must be for the ladies who have been writing their surname their whole life and then have to get used to writing a different one after being married. I think I'd just hyphenate my name to be honest. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do I deal with this |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 11:20 am
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Replies: 7
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| Yeah I can relate on having trouble with focus. He can be very long winded and usually about 10 minutes of a tangent I'm lost simply because something has managed to distract my attention either in the environment or just because something has just come to mind. It is super frustrating when I have t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What weird things gross you out? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 3,775
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-Ehh people making hawking, snorting and snuffling noises
-dirty public toilets (I won't use it if it smells like stink in there)
-insects
meh I don't think these things are unusual and trypophobia is gross but it doesn't creep me out. ;p |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do I deal with this |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:30 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 673
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| I have a really good friend with AS and we usually can talk about just about anything that comes to mind. However, he will sometimes bring things up that are so vague and so very hard for me to understand that I have a hard time responding and asking him to make it understandable is very difficult b... |
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