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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm worthless |
| catalina |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 8:22 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,131
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Did you break up resently?
If that is the case, it may explain why you feel more sensitive now, specially after a toxic relationship.
Even when you have had bad experiences, not all the people are mean.
Try to focus on healing, its easier to relate to people when you feel well. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: I'm in the hospital again. |
| catalina |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2017, 10:08 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 482
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| do you have any family or close friends who can help you until you find a place? |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Song you're obsessed with |
| catalina |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2017, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 1,711
Views: 112,541
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depressed and Suicidal thoughts |
| catalina |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2017, 8:21 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 498
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| your problems could be related to the bipolar disorder, maybe you should check it with your doctor. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looking when people talk to you |
| catalina |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2017, 1:47 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,800
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| have you tried looking at them without glasses? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I hate eyes! |
| catalina |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2016, 11:54 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,097
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| im NT and avoid looking directly to the eyes (i look at the bridge of the nose or under the eyes so people will not notice) because im afraid about how people could react to my words. If i say something wrong, i rather realize it after I've said all i need to say, or I'll be anxious. Eyes usually gi... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What do you most detest in people? |
| catalina |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2016, 9:30 pm
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Replies: 119
Views: 3,430
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| not treating everyone as equals |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I have brain cancer |
| catalina |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2016, 9:19 pm
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Replies: 88
Views: 3,111
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you a super recogniser? Here's a test. |
| catalina |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2016, 2:28 pm
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Replies: 55
Views: 3,850
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: An Aspie day at work |
| catalina |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2016, 8:40 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 643
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| first days are usually hard (for NT too). You will get used to the new environment. About socialization, if your job involves working directly with people, try to work on your social abilities. If not, limit to the basics: say hi to your coworkers, join them for lunch, help them when needed, etc |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have autism and need dating advice |
| catalina |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 12:00 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,449
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| Try to find someone with similar interests. Maybe at online games or at Gen Con (if you can manage the social anxiety) |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Bullied by others with ASD |
| catalina |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2016, 1:25 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 469
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| I have had similar experiences with my NT friends, true friends will always stay by your side. Don´t mind the others, it is painful at the beginning, but then you will be glad to be out of that problems. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: So fed up |
| catalina |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2016, 8:52 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 766
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| Try to focus in one problem at a time. You could help your mom first, maybe there are some cheaper options for the funeral or a relative willing to help. While you take a little distance from the friends of your boyfriend until you feel better. Then you can help your boyfriend with his friends probl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
| catalina |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2016, 3:59 pm
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Replies: 2,515
Views: 811,848
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| This one goes to the NTs: Would you befriend someone if you knew they would never ever miss you? If not, why? I'm not able to display emotional attachment or miss other people but I still can enjoy some people's companies A LOT. That's why I'm asking. I wouldn`t mind. Some of my friends are like th... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Infer something about the person above you from their avatar |
| catalina |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2016, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 452
Views: 15,709
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you find weird about neurotypicals? |
| catalina |
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Posted: 29 May 2016, 10:27 pm
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Replies: 203
Views: 9,437
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| I think it is sad when ASD people learn the bad part of NT-behaviors. |
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