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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love, Death and Feelings[ |
| Pogue333 |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2013, 12:32 am
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Replies: 12
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| """I only knew a couple people who died but I didn't have a close relationship with them; one was my grandma & another was a friend who I had a falling out with years ago, there's a couple other people but I wasn't close with them. I didn't mourn & kind of accepted they died. I am emotional ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love, Death and Feelings[ |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2013, 12:29 am
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Replies: 12
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| """"1) What is his relationship really like with the people he's talking about? I wouldn't care if my father died, either. It would make no difference to me. I have no relationship with him. But if it was someone I was in a relationship with - yes, I'm pretty sure I'd get emotional about that. 2) Di... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love, Death and Feelings[ |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2013, 12:21 am
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| """"]Maybe he's lying. Maybe consciously he sees expressing his emotions or crying in front of others as a sign of weakness or it is exposing himself. Maybe he doesn't want to admit he would be really upset if his mom died. I'm like this in some way. I woudn't cry in front of people (unless my momma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love, Death and Feelings[ |
| Pogue333 |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2013, 8:59 am
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Replies: 12
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Thanks for all your replies! It seems there are many different ways a person with AS deals with love, death and feelings!
It's great to get a mix of reactions/examples! Thanks again! :0) |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
| Pogue333 |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2013, 4:56 am
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Replies: 2,515
Views: 807,421
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| """""]This is a question for NT's, generally young women NT's but anyone can answer: What would the best way for an Aspie to tell you that he has Aspergers? A lot of times I meet NT women that are nice and all but they misinterpret my cold gaze and lack of social congruency as stand offish and insec... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2013, 4:51 am
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Replies: 2,515
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| """A question to NTs: do you notice even the mildest of aspies, do they seem not right to you even if they're really subtle???"""" I never had a clue to when i met my AS BF that he had any quirks! He comes across as a funny intelligent warm person which is his! Obvioulsy as I've got to know him and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love, Death and Feelings[ |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2013, 4:39 am
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| I'm NT and dating an AS guy......I wanted to see If all AS people think the same as my BF about Love and death. My BF says when his father died he felt no emotion (which i expected) And didn't not mourn (expected) But doesn't miss him at all. He says when his mum or sister die he will not mourn or m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tough to trust women. |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2013, 12:56 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 3,122
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| """"It changes your subconscious more than your conscious. If you are a porn watcher, try it and go cold turkey. See how much more positive it affects your life. I changed about a week ago or so, and I do feel better by not watching porn""""" There was a documentary on porn's effects on the brain, t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tough to trust women. |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2013, 6:59 am
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Replies: 45
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redriverronin wrote: Asian European middle eastern and south American women should be your goal forget the rest.
A bit harsh and narrow minde!  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wife on a steep learning curve - I want to get this right |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2013, 8:47 am
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Replies: 6
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| Hi I am NT and my BF is AS. We have our clashes but we communicate very well and that is a huge plus! We sort put any problems as soon as it crops up. In the same way we read up and learn how to understand the AS way of thinking, they also need to do some research too. We learn off each other. AS is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wife on a steep learning curve - I want to get this right |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2013, 8:46 am
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Replies: 6
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| Hi I am NT and my BF is AS. We have our clashes but we communicate very well and that is a huge plus! We sort put any problems as soon as it crops up. In the same way we read up and learn how to understand the AS way of thinking, they also need to do some research too. We learn off each other. AS is... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Think before you speak, quite literally! |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2013, 7:46 am
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Replies: 8
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| Hi, I'm NT but my boyfriend is AS. He made to chioce to be sociable rather than a recluse as he says these are the only 2 options for him. He says when he's alone for weeks/months he feels lonely so wants to socialize but when he's out he wishes he was at home so he's not comfortable/happy with eith... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can you have AS traits, but not be an Aspie? |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2013, 3:16 am
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Replies: 36
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| Hello......I've taken a few AS tests and come up somewhere in the middle. The reason I took the test is because my AS boyfriend recognized quite a few of the traits in me. I get the impression that it's harder to diagnose AS in women because a lot of the "traits' are less severe than in AS men. I'm ... |
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