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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever feel like staying high to forget someone you loved? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 3:09 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Listening a lot to this song lately and can relate too :D I don't really drink much, but when I drink, the feelings come back so much easier. Lately, I really feel like crying when I'm drunk, as he comes back to my mind instantly. Sort of drink to forget, but actually you remember even more. Anyway,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lets face it some NTs do want to date an aspie! |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 12:53 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 11,622
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| NTs usually don't even think about other people in terms of "mental disorders" unless they're blatantly insane or have down-syndrome. An autistic person is often just viewed as another NT, but a weird/shy one. They think a sociopath is a cocky, charismatic, and very-confident NT.(that gets angry ea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 10:23 am
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Replies: 2,709
Views: 462,989
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| yes. it's been 2 years. the most horrible 2 years of my life. she was the only ASD-woman I have ever met, and the only person I ever really trusted. We were together for ten years, almost, then I got depressed, so bad, and things - I- fell apart. And I have not regained hope since. I'm sure things ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Has he moved on? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 10:19 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 2,919
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| why do you think the last conversation he said all those positive things? I find it hard to move on because the last conversation he said great things and confidently said he would go on a date as soon as possible. Why would he do that? He did specifically say try not to worry if i'm busy for a whi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asking Someone Out (when they might be in a relationship) |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 10:15 am
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Replies: 17
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| Just an update in case anyone is interested: On Monday night I decided to message D on Facebook to see if he'd be back from his trip and would like to get coffee sometime this weekend. The reason I did that over Facebook was because I'm leaving to visit home for a week or so after that and I won't ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Longest a failed romance has #$%ed you up? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2014, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,530
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| One thing I would say is that certain people, for whatever reasons, really get under your skin. That is that the attraction is unusually strong. With those I have had lingering feelings last years. With most however, it doesn't take much time getting over. This. One year ago, someone "got under my ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Has he moved on? |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2014, 8:02 am
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Replies: 8
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| He can be on fb for ages, but he has never spoken to me on fb. He generally avoids it and usually only speaks on whatsapp. However he hasn't been on whatsapp once in june. I tried ringing but it always goes straight to voice mail. But i find it confusing because last time we spoke to he was telling... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Im NT trying to understand my AS boyfriend |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2014, 7:50 am
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Replies: 16
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| Hello. It's nice you're being open about this problem and discussing it. As an aspie, I'll do my best to help you. For me, violence is not an option. I have never bruised anyone. People are very diverse, including aspies, so some might be violent. Are you still in the same place? If you're in physic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Questioning your sexuality |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2014, 1:41 pm
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Replies: 11
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| What you like naturally (and if you're not lying to yourself), that's probably where your sexuality resides. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asking Someone Out (when they might be in a relationship) |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2014, 1:14 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Yes, hard to know if that's just brushing off or not. Congratulations for the courage. Wish you luck :) Thanks :) I'm leaning towards thinking that he actually does want to meet up sometime, as I knew in advance that he is going to be busy for awhile. I was actually kind of expecting that he'd be t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asking Someone Out (when they might be in a relationship) |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2014, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Well, I got up the courage to ask him (after going to do it twice and backing down). His office-mate was away today, so I just asked him in his office. I phrased it as "I was wondering if you wanted to get coffee sometime." He seemed a bit taken aback for a second--of course, he was probably expect... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Has he moved on? |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2014, 7:09 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 2,919
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| Hi. I'll comment it according to my perspective: not talking during really busy times seems very plausible. What caught my attention is that he is ignoring you even though he is also doing other stuff on Facebook. Does he stay on for long periods on FB? Ignoring, as opposed to short replies that don... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asking Someone Out (when they might be in a relationship) |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2014, 2:42 pm
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| Pursuing someone in a relationship isn't something I would advise. Well yes, obviously. But I'm not sure if he is in a relationship. And even if he his, I'd still like to get the chance to get to know him better as a friend outside of a work setting. If it were me, I'd honestly be making that excus... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does love exist? Or is it all made up rubbish? |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2014, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 67
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| I felt it once. But honestly, just once. Had lots of temporary passions, of course. It just happened. I wasn't looking for anyone or for love, it happened naturally. In my opinion, if you need to fake something, it's not love. The feeling was taken from me quite fast too (I was left :( ). I think lo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Harsh or not? |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2014, 11:29 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,226
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kraftiekortie wrote: Sounds like the Aspie was talking to a "popular" girl, and the douchebag "popular" guy didn't like it. Too high school for college.
My thoughts exactly.
Anyway, unnecessarily rude. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People often think I am asexual, is that normal? |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2014, 11:26 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,429
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| It can some time to find someone that suits you, take your time and do not give in to the pressure that you need to always date. Do what makes you happy :D I'm 21 and I have never had a serious relationship. I was also called gay by the mere fact I didn't have a girlfriend all the time. This never o... |
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