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Forum: The Haven Topic: Assitance needed urgently |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2014, 4:03 pm
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| I haven't posted in a while as I was at a high point but I felt I needed to tonight. Basically, my Nan has just passed away and I don't know what I'm feeling but I just feel dead inside and know once it catches up to me I will not be able to cope with anything, no changes routine or things out of pl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help...Me...Please... |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 4:32 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 578
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| And for people who have messaged me or offered to listen thank you. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help...Me...Please... |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 4:30 pm
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| Waterfalls, this is what has happened in the last six months (very condensed version of events) I have had lost three friends, two of them I liked (forum posts about that somewhere in the haven). One grandparent from each side of the family has been diagnosed with cancer. I have lost a lot of my con... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help...Me...Please... |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 10:04 am
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Got to the point where everything I do to cope is failing and I have just got to the point where I feel as if I am a failure. If anyone can spare time to listen, either reply or pm me as I don't want to write a long forum post and have no one reply on it as it would just make me feel worse.
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help. If you can spare five minutes just, help me |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2014, 6:02 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Just to give whoever is following this an update, I have repaired things with the friend that was supporting me. However, I have had the news I was dreading. C not only doesn't want a relationship anymore between us, but has said to me that she doesn't want me around her anymore (people that have sa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help. If you can spare five minutes just, help me |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2014, 4:15 pm
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| I hate having to make long posts but some much stuff has hit the fan in the past 12 hours that I can't sort out anymore. Once again I will list it in a numbered list for ease of reading but I don't think that will make much difference 1. Messed up my one chance at a relationship. (See the post in me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice regarding first relationship and complications |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2014, 7:45 am
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| Thanks for replying AngelRho. I have noticed myself that it has Romeo and Juliet written all over it at the mo and, to put how over the top he is into a sentence, he won't allow her to have male friends and doesn't know about my close friendship with C or about the other male friends she has. The on... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice regarding first relationship and complications |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2014, 4:45 am
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| A bit of a long post this but all of the explanation is needed Over Christmas I developed feelings for a girl at my college (sixth form college as I live in the UK), let's call her C. C, I don't know if you have seen any of my other forum posts in the haven, was always there helping me get out of my... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: fealing the need to be with someone |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 2:53 am
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Replies: 10
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| Don't fret, you aren't the only one who feels like this at this age. I am sixteen and feel pretty much the same way you do about relationships (feeling that you need to be there for someone). There is one thing to bear in mind though when you do find someone you like. Become good friends first for a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: coming out of the closet with this text |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2014, 2:56 pm
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| That is beautifully put and pretty much covers what it is like to be an aspie. If you don't mind me asking, what inspired you to write something like this? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Coping with social anxiety moments |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2014, 7:15 am
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| I will do my best to offer advice but I am going through this myself and am coping only partially with it all. What I do when I start to feel like this is, whatever I am doing, I take a minute out and tell myself constantly that I haven't made a misstep or, if I know I have, tell myself that whateve... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship help? |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2014, 3:53 am
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| IMHO, Go for it! You miss 100% off the chances you don't take. What happened to you before is an isolated incident and what happened in it should not affect your future. Whatever response he gives, you should be clear in the knowledge that you know how he feels and even if the response is a no, you ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Please read as need support desperately |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2014, 6:55 pm
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Replies: 9
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| Thanks Misslizard. A SENCO is a Special Educational Needs Co-Ordinator and their job is to organise the services that can be provided to people who have a special educational need. In a way, it is the British version of a counsellor and while counsellor a do exist in the UK, a SENCO is designed to b... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Please read as need support desperately |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2014, 6:49 pm
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| Thanks Toy_Soldier. I have been speaking too my mum about it a lot and she finally is starting too see something in what I am saying and hopefully she can sort out an appointment for me to speak to a psychologist about it. If not, the communication and autism team where I live can sort out in colleg... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Please read as need support desperately |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2014, 6:03 pm
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Thanks BigSister. With KAF being aspie too, it probably is along the lines of what you mentioned, a "it's not you, it's me". I will try what you suggested with going through all of the scenarios, starting with the ones that will come up quicker and see what happens.
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to get over loosing a friend - any ideas? |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2014, 3:14 pm
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Replies: 18
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| jloome, what exactly happened is this. It is going to be quite long this but hopefully it should shed some more light on the situation We became friends quite quickly (aspie aspie friendships are made quicker IMHOtham NT NT ones) and then over time I developed feelings for her. I had originally plan... |
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