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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotional and intellectual conflict in dating |
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Posted: 23 May 2014, 2:56 pm
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| I went to a dance exactly one time during my school years... I remember that she was wearing a midnight blue dress, and slowdancing with Brooke was the most intimate and special feeling I have ever had, before or since. If you've seen the newer version of "Pride & Prejudice," it felt like the on... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating as an INTJ Aspie= Super hard mode! |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2014, 12:43 pm
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| Yeah, it will be tough, I'm sure. But I still think there are actually plenty of people interested in someone who is generally anti-social and pretty independent. Those are things that I definitely like, because when I'm dating that kind of girl it means I don't have to pretend to be social myself. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating as an INTJ Aspie= Super hard mode! |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2014, 10:22 pm
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| I have a good aspie friend, and the two of us are both INTP aspies. I personally have been romantically into at least one INTJ that I know of, who was Neurotypical. So it certainly isn't unheard of :) if I were to date that girl, I think the main issue would be that we are both very stubborn, depend... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Laughing at me because I'm "cute"? |
| sk8r44809 |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2014, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I actually can see cute being an insulting thing to say. It isn't outwardly insulting, because as people have said further up in this thread, the word cute has a positive connotation and is generally a good thing. But it can also be a dismissive thing to call someone, and saying someone is being cut... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Having a "crush" on someone just because they are |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2014, 9:02 pm
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| You know honestly, I feel that I've calmed down a lot romantically... I used to be in similar shoes to what I hear you describing... but I don't really think that the way I feel has changed all that much. Rather, I take those feelings less seriously now than I used to, and I recognize that when I ha... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do most people in general make you nervous |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2014, 7:37 pm
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| Yes, People in general scare me. There is a line that any given relationship crosses or at least can cross, and after crossing I feel much more at ease around that person. I am curious what makes the difference in crossing the line, but I don't know. And another thing, in learning to cope with AS be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Report 3 |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2014, 8:19 pm
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| Dear Brian: As I caught myself up on this story (I have only read this particular thread, as of now.. I know you alluded to previous ones), I was thinking to myself that you seem to be doing a fantastic job, and getting great advice, and that by the end there would likely be nothing for me to contri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you know if a guy likes you or wants to be friends? |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2014, 7:23 pm
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Replies: 141
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| Oh hey Alycat, congratulations! I'm so happy that worked out for you! I'm interested in how this conversation has developed since I was last here, also. Boo, you do kind of strike me as abrasive, but I often like that in people. My experience is that guys are at least less likely to share emotions w... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2013, 3:56 pm
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| Ok, so first I'll try to give something of an answer to the question about interpreting body language, then I have a question of my own as well. If you like movies, and watch the movie "Hitch," a good part of what the story is about is that some people are more socially savvy and aware than others. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you know if a guy likes you or wants to be friends? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 1:28 pm
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Replies: 141
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: Motorboat him and watch his reaction.
PS, isn't Motorboating something you do to a girl?
"What the Hell is a lemon squeeze??"
"It's like a backwards melon bag..."
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you know if a guy likes you or wants to be friends? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 1:20 pm
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Replies: 141
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| "Yeah he's been really nice. It's just been a bit confusing because I'd always thought that either a guy would want to date you and would hang out loads or they'd not want to hang out and would say "I don't fancy you" when you asked. He's wanting to hang out and (if I've read it correctly) said that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you know if a guy likes you or wants to be friends? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2013, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 141
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| Alycat, I was excited for your story as I got caught up reading about it. So in my own small way I am very sad to see it unfold this way. I think you handled yourself just fine though, an you have nothing to feel ashamed about. Sadly, knowing NT guys quite well because I most likely am one... most t... |
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