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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: finding a job |
| creativeconsumption |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 9:19 am
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| Hello all! I want to get a job. I feel like it would be a great solution to a couple of issues. I would have more money, and I would meet other people. Having aspergers syndrome there are limitations to what kind of job i could handle, though. I get home from school around three to four, and then ha... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: What do you think about housewives and feminism? |
| creativeconsumption |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2015, 12:27 am
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Replies: 83
Views: 4,191
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| Feminism is not forcing women to work, but allowing us to have a choice. Anything else is just stupid. You made the choice, go you!! |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I cant focus in "the moment" |
| creativeconsumption |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2015, 11:22 pm
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Replies: 0
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| I have recently gotten into an amazing relationship with my dream guy. We are very close. I have never even had to explain my aspergers much, since he is open minded enough to consider it my personality. But on this subject, i think it might be a good idea to bring it up. I also have some hormonal i... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: songwriting |
| creativeconsumption |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2014, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 742
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| You can easily find places online where you can learn the basics of music theory for free. Trust me, even a little knowledge goes a long way. If its just a hobby, there are tons of websites, or youtube videos about this. But if you are serious about it I would recommend playing an instrument, prefer... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: bands |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2014, 5:51 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 1,040
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| How do you go about forming a band without talking to strangers? You dont. Joining an already existing band would be worse, because they would have relations to each other already. When I started playing music I thought it was just another temporary interest, but now it brings so much good stuff in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2014, 4:09 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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Probably should've written this a bit sooner.
Found out he is into guys. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Autism and musical ability |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2014, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,855
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| I've found I'm very disorganized with my music. Are the one's here that like to make music intensely focused on it or just flexible and disorganized. What do you guys think? Putting together two notes can make my day, really. Its like tasting something new like coffe with licorice, and then remeber... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2014, 3:07 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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| In over 95% of my relationships the women ask me out! Im not good at approaching out of fear of rejection and laughed at and fear of being accused of sexual harrassment so I just don't. Yes just asking a woman out for a cup of coffee can be grounds of sexual harrassment even outside of work! Asking... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Autism and musical ability |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2014, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,855
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| Musically able to the point where I annoy other people :/ If Im really low-energy and in sensory overload I yell at people if they are playing/singing/humming/whistling a song and not hitting the right notes. Somehow it just makes me cringe. People tell me over and over that i shouldnt yell at them ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2014, 11:29 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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| Not at all. As an autistic, I find it really easy to know if a neurodiverse girl is interested. Not to derail the thread, but what is the difference between the way neurodiverse girls show they are interested and neurotypical girls show they are interested? Well, since we dont pick up on body langu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2014, 12:40 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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| I talked to him today about his work. And oh my God he is SOOO talented. So I asked him questions, and he actually told some things without me asking. And, of course i told his coworkers how beautiful it was(they showed it to me at first) while he was listening, and i could see him fighting to not s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ladies does fat on guys really matter that much? |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2014, 12:30 pm
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Replies: 60
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| Havent got a single idea about how off-road this topic have gotten yet, but i really want to answer the original question; about fat on guys. Personally i love big guys, as in broad/tall/big in a fat kind of way(?). NOT overweight as in unhealthy, but i think "soft" looking guys are so much more phy... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2014, 7:42 am
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Replies: 35
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| Oh yes but the most relevant question is; if a girl/guy/whatever takes the first step, would you then just wait for them to take the next couple of steps also? Because if i take the first step, it would be to show him that he is allowed to take some steps too. Is this nonsense? Haha I might just wai... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2014, 10:39 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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| There's also the possibility that he'll shut down completely and withdraw. If you want to get anywhere, it would help if you both share a common interest. Usually if you lock in on another aspie's special interest, they'll usually start talking and sometimes can't stop. But if even doing that doesn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2014, 10:35 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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| Sounds like you are going to have to take the initiative. Something like ask if he wants to have lunch or coffee with you after work, or something similar. A neutral public place where you can have some one on one conversation. If he has ASD he might do better in conversation one on one. If he turn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Shy Guys Opinions Wanted |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2014, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,723
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| would that make the chance of a rejection bigger? Impossible to tell, because there probably are two factors with opposite effects: being clear avoids him thinking you dislike him (especially since you stooped saying good morning), but it risks panic. My suggestion is that you do something to find ... |
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