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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2007, 8:26 pm
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| Thanks Faithfilly and Zanne. That really helps, well helps me in understanding more. I am easily approachable and could understand why some could find me assertive. I can also see why there could be an issue with self esteem, though my first reaction to the '...nevermind' statement was that she want... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2007, 10:49 pm
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| This is after our first date looking back but yeah, I mean there is so much that indicates. Like the way she talks, very feminine and soft and words tumble out in bundles amongst short pauses. Preoccupation with the vibrating oven exaust vent. Lanky walking that is very cute. When I first saw her sh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2007, 9:06 pm
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| Well not that much is happening. This past Thursday she relpllied to my 5 or so waiting emails in one fell swoop. Mostly one liners as if all was ok. In one I tell her to cheer up and tell me whats wrong. The reply was, 'what goes around comes around ...nevermind', and that bothered me. I'm trying t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2007, 6:06 pm
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| No, haven't been married but I can see myself happily married in the not too distant future. I was engaged back when I was 27 no date was set though. How does this play a role here? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2007, 12:04 pm
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| More good stuff ZanneMarie, thanks. I guess 'Bubbly' wasn't the right word to use. I was trying to say I was being extroverted. In my employment, I graduated to the position of president in a coproration. I had to learn to be extroverted in that trek, to 'make things happen'. I like all the personal... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2007, 11:21 am
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| Thanks for your post Popsicle. Yes, it could be something else, but AS fits it to a 'T' when I replay every moment in my head when trying to make sense of it all. Honestry I don't know too much about clinical depression, but I can tell you that my girl hasn't missed a minute of work. I know if I wer... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2007, 12:12 am
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| wops, this one was a duplicate of the above ^ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2007, 12:12 am
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| ZanneMarie, thank you so much. Yes, I agree my bubbly self drove the sensory mercury up and the hug was like a final blow, more sighs. Actually I am introverted. Personality wise I am an iNTj which anyone can google if interested. The Geocities explanations seem to be most sensible and flowing. I'm ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2007, 11:10 pm
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| Thanks for the reply Shale. I think she is sad because of the lack of progression and she feels uncomfortable 'laying the card on the table'. She hasn't told me of her AS. But maybe she thinks she did, with hints and mannerisms, is that possible? I think it is. That makes me wonder if I should do it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just disappear? |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2007, 9:46 pm
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| 1.) Should I let her retreat to solitude, and how easily and often should I, when do I push it? I'm afraid of causing more sensory overload. I'm a forty year old male NT interested in a 34 year old female Aspie. She has never told me that she has AS. We talked and wrote each other before our first d... |
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