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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do you know when people really care about you? |
| mcv100 |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2014, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 4,085
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| I have come to believe that you can tell if someone truly cares through the times of inconvenience. Is it someone you can count on to answer their phone in the middle of the night because you need them for some reason? They are also the ones that stick around when life is difficult. It is amazing ho... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: online dating advice/critique my OKC profile |
| mcv100 |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2014, 3:15 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,982
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| You can take or leave my advice, but I am an NT who found my Aspie man on a dating website. First of all, you are very attractive, so score for that! :) I would remove the last photo though as it kind of makes you look 12... The other ones do not though. As much as we like to avoid it, the truth is ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is love? |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2014, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,120
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| I am just curious... My bf (Aspie) and me (NT) have talked a lot about dating and marriage and the reasons each one of us wants those things. We have also talked about what love looks like to us. I found it interesting that his response when I asked him why he wants to get married is because he want... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: There's a boy! |
| mcv100 |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2014, 9:25 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,248
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salamandaqwerty wrote: Good for you RikkiK! It's great to hear some good news, good luck!
Agreed! This thread made me smile. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: New year, new OKCupid contact. |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2014, 8:26 pm
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Replies: 29
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Jono wrote: Well, she finally replied to SMS today. I've replied back, asking if she'd be interested in meeting for coffee. I'll see what happens.
Good luck! |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Sage advice for the NT in an NT/Aspie Relationship |
| mcv100 |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 1:49 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 4,080
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| Oh wait, you are asking for practical advice! If you can swing the Scandinavian-modern Japanese tea house thing, I'm sure it would help, but just remember what you like about each other and what lead you to be friends and lovers in the first place. When stress is high, cultivate joy. This is very g... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Sage advice for the NT in an NT/Aspie Relationship |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 2:34 am
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Replies: 21
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| I think your friend night be terrified they'll respond to questions like this one naiievely. If you are referring to my bf, he is not on the site and if he happened to join later, he would recognize my user name :) I mentioned I joined this site and asked if he had heard about it. He said no, check... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Sage advice for the NT in an NT/Aspie Relationship |
| mcv100 |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 12:30 am
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Replies: 21
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| I joined this site recently because I am an NT in a relationship with an Aspie. We have a very strong relationship, albeit still fairly new. Everything I read about NT/AS relationships seem to be negative. I know there are healthy, strong and thriving NT/Aspie relationships though. I thought I would... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Any good long-term AS/NT marriage stories? |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2014, 12:18 am
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Replies: 17
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| I am glad you started this thread. I am an NT in a relationship with an Aspie. It is still essentially a fresh relationship, although I feel very close to him and many of our close friends comment on how it seems like we've been together much longer. I was fairly unfamiliar with AS, but have since d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: New year, new OKCupid contact. |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2014, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,244
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| Just text her now! Don't wait around. I agree that you can probably ask her out already. It is true, girls get a lot of attention on OKC, but if you have a good connection and you are actually asking her about things she enjoys and not just telling her she is pretty, she most likely will want to mee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: New year, new OKCupid contact. |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2014, 1:00 am
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Replies: 29
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| I'm an NT in a relationship with an Aspie. I did a bit of on-line dating before I ended up with my bf. I tended to move quickly on those sites (OKC and E-harmony). I found it better to meet people in person. I generally gave my number after a couple messages and didn't like to wait too long before m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell a new partner about my Asperger's? |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2014, 12:48 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,472
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| I am an NT in a relationship with an Aspie. We met on-line, so I would say a similar situation. I would not have guessed that he was an Aspie, but I could tell he was quirky. We connected very quickly and I was drawn to his playfulness. He told me on our second date, mainly because I asked a specifi... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Newbie |
| mcv100 |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2014, 12:46 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Thank you, Hart! My bf gave me his highlighted copy of that book to read when we first got together. It has been very insightful. I think I need to read/watch more first hand accounts. Watching "Adam" helped me to see a little more what it is like to live with AS. My bf disguising a lot of his sympt... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Newbie |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2014, 3:44 am
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Replies: 3
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| Well, I joined and this forum said to come in and introduce myself and I am a good listener, so here I am :) I guess the best place to start is answering these questions: What is your first name? Age: Meg Location: So-Cal Hobbies and Interests: Music (I'm a classical Musician), Education (I'm also a... |
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