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Forum: The Haven Topic: Triggers |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2015, 9:26 pm
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Replies: 3
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Triggers |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2015, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 267
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I quit masturbating |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 12 Feb 2015, 12:41 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 87
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| I think you're being pretty rational, actually. Women are people, too. I think you'd do better making friends with women. Then...if the sparks come, they come. If they don't, they don't. Many marriages have started with "friends first." Very true. I consider my wife still to be my best fr... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I quit masturbating |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2015, 7:05 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Never have quit, never wanted to. Masturbating never stopped me from meeting my wife. I know, it's not going to stop anyone from meeting their wife or husband, one has nothing to do with the other. But if women are frustrating you to the point where you end up feeling rage or hospitalized because o... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I quit masturbating |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2015, 6:14 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 87
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| Never have quit, never wanted to. Masturbating never stopped me from meeting my wife. I know, it's not going to stop anyone from meeting their wife or husband, one has nothing to do with the other. But if women are frustrating you to the point where you end up feeling rage or hospitalized because o... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I quit masturbating |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2015, 6:02 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 87
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| I wish I could quit like you, especially since nothing happens in it. I want to quit all of it, porn too, it's icky but my brain keeps rebelling and making me do it's that that last year made me consider just emailing porn actresses and nude models to ask them out ( I saw something like that work i... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I quit masturbating |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2015, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 87
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| I quit masturbating because all it did was make me angry, and it was the peak of my day. I also quit watching porn. All that stuff made me do ws thing "oh this is what so and so that I know is kind of doing with so and so that I see them with" then I'd get all pissy about it and think abou... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: wanting to ask socially unacceptable questions. |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2014, 4:53 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,118
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| When i want to ask why people of different colored skin that have lived in america for hundreds of years have different cultures (in many cases). Or when someone is physically disabled and i want to know what's wrong. I feel like if i ask these questions, my intentions will become lost because i do... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why do I get ignored in group discusssions |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2014, 4:40 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,216
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| Or maybe you seem uncomfortable and out of place, it's harsh but true that many people don't feel comfortable talking to people who have a low self esteem - who don't know how to act and how to carry themselves. Some often also ignore people they've had bad experiences with in the past, for example... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ignore, ignore,ignore ... |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2014, 2:04 am
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Replies: 11
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| And it seems that everyone I know does this flaking out/ignoring thing. so I figure if i start doing it to whoever I can, I'll be less sensitive about it. Although, since I'm done socializing completely, it won't happen again, but at least I'll get over the past times it happened. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ignore, ignore,ignore ... |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2014, 1:55 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,587
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| And if someone misses me, that's their problem not mine. have you ever missed anybody? No. The people who ignored me, but then it's just really anger and thinking about the good times we had together just to have them all of a sudden stop returning my phone calls. At funerals when everyone is balli... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ignore, ignore,ignore ... |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2014, 1:50 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,587
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| be careful, you never know when that other person will enter your life in some inconvenient spot in your future, or if they are armed and extraordinarily irritable. Yea I guess you're right. but I'm going to continue to not hold doors for people, ignore people and purposely take forever in lines at... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ignore, ignore,ignore ... |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2014, 1:32 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,587
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| be careful, you never know when that other person will enter your life in some inconvenient spot in your future, or if they are armed and extraordinarily irritable. Yea I guess you're right. but I'm going to continue to not hold doors for people, ignore people and purposely take forever in lines at... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ignore, ignore,ignore ... |
| Siamese |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2014, 6:47 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,587
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| He came over,I had the light on,blinds open and I didn't answer. I was walking down the street, and when I got to the the intersection, I started purposely slowing down and the woman in the car honked her horn at me and I looked her in the eye and flipped her off. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ignore, ignore,ignore ... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2014, 5:03 pm
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Replies: 11
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| So yesterday my mom contacted me like 10 times, and the last 6 messages said, "Why aren't you responding?". I just ignored them. I wasn't busy, I didn't forget. I literally read them and didn't respond. Eventually she gave up and never contacted me again. It's amazing how quickly NTs give up when th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How to get rid of religion & politic frustration w/ ppl |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2014, 8:13 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,548
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| I'm black & aspie and have been called so many names and derogatory names too, even the ones homosexuals and I'm not even gay. I understand where you are coming from. But I'm not walking away from my beliefs (stop believing in what I believe in), i'm just walking away from the actions or behavio... |
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