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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Written off as a hopeless case

Posted: 14 Jul 2015, 1:18 pm 

Replies: 1
Views: 250


Recently my file at the community mental health office was closed. My councilor (or she was anyway) told me a couple months ago that she's giving up on me. I have several mental health and emotional issues, but I had been hoping for years that if only I just kept doing the work involved, just stayed...

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: Is survival a choice?

 Post subject: Is survival a choice?
Posted: 13 Jul 2015, 8:14 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 426


I was considering this question the other day. My thought on this after thinking it over a little is absolutely not. That primitive animal need to survive to do anything we can to live or at least make sure we don't lay down and die easily is not really a fully conscious thing. You are in a crowded ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Can you recover from child abuse without any help?

Posted: 10 Jul 2015, 9:40 am 

Replies: 26
Views: 1,712


Hopefully I'm not sticking this topic in the wrong place. But I would like some opinions on this. I have a younger sister who was a victim of childhood physical and emotional abuse. My family and I also have good reason to believe there was also sexual abuse though in that case the abuser was never ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: relationship for practicality?

Posted: 10 Apr 2015, 9:53 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 544


I hope this doesn't come off as sounding completely beyond horrible. But I feel a need to know if anyone else has ever felt or thought like I do about this one. In my world it seemed there were generally three kinds of people where relationships were concerned. Some stuck with their mate for years a...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Why constantly imply I'm stupid?

Posted: 10 Mar 2015, 11:12 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 981


I'm posting this mainly because I need a little insight on this behavior. It doesn't upset me so much as confuse the heck out of me, and even concern me. Now I am typically considered to be on the higher end of average intelligence. I learn generally learn many skills pretty well and fast. I retain ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: mylan-mirtazapine side effects

Posted: 10 Mar 2015, 10:25 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 546


I started this particular medication recently )fioor depression and generalized anxiety disorder) and it seems almost immediately I noticed a couple of side effects of it. It caused both an increase in appetite and in levels of frustration. After a few days of this I admittedly just stopped taking t...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Second languages

 Post subject: Second languages
Posted: 27 Oct 2014, 11:47 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 3,491


I have recently began to pursue a lifelong ambition of learning to speak French, something that when I was much younger, people seemed bent on discouraging any interest in. I got to thinking and wondering though about the idea of people on the spectrum and second languages. Is it likely any differen...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Do you ever have trouble being autistic?

Posted: 10 Sep 2014, 8:22 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 951


Admittedly I do sometimes wish I could be a better friend to people. I do try to have friends with, and certainly to be friendly to neighbors and coworkers, etc. But most often I just cannot work out exactly how to maintain or form a friendship with others. I cant understand how to be truly useful t...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Aspie 'superpowers'

Posted: 09 Sep 2014, 11:56 pm 

Replies: 26
Views: 3,913


I question the logic of the world and the motivations and thinking of people often. I tend to think very 'out of the box' on many things. Practicality to me is not what is it to most others it seems. I would like to think that my way of thinking of of seeing the world could be classed as my 'super p...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'll be good enough or literally die trying. (Hopeless)

Posted: 09 Sep 2014, 9:49 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 895


I'm posting this in here out of desperation. I urgently need some advice or a creative solution, and I fear I am going to end up doing something dangerous or stupid with no where to turn anymore. I had a couple people move into my house recently, as I mentioned in another post once. Its getting bad ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Childish behaviour, is any one else dealing with this?

Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 1:39 am 

Replies: 70
Views: 10,085


This is an interesting topic. I've come to think personally that some aspies seem to mentally and emotionally age a bit differently than an average NT person would. I've certainly noticed this with myself as well. I am early into my 30s myself,and its hard to actually place the overall age of my beh...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Can you hold down a debate?

Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 1:03 am 

Replies: 56
Views: 4,610


I tend to be pretty decent at it I think. I don't typically set out to do it on purpose much, but still I end up pulled into them more lately. My downfall in debates I think tends to be that I generally tackle a debate with the intention of convincing the other person and others that happen to be li...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Aspie truckers?

Posted: 10 Aug 2014, 12:13 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 5,632


I've thought before of taking the truck driving class, and then trying for my class 1 drivers licence. I can drive a car or pick up truck as well as an NT. (Honestly I never understood why the big stereotype about aspies not able to drive. It seems many do so, just like anyone else.) Admittedly thou...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Which would be more stressful

Posted: 10 Aug 2014, 1:07 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 955


Definitely the actual move in my case. Oddly enough I don't tend to find new environments overly stressful, or at least they are not so for very long really. Making a new place my own is actually sort of fun. I do however actually detest moving. Just the thought of lugging boxes around and loading a...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Gone as far as I can go?

 Post subject: Gone as far as I can go?
Posted: 21 Jun 2014, 2:38 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 1,078


In a couple of weeks I will turn 32 (pretty shocking to really imagine that for real, because apparently as with many people on the spectrum, I tend to seem younger at times.) Over the last week or so though I've been thinking more about the ideas both of how many years have gone by and how many I l...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Money never paid back, now what?

Posted: 20 Jun 2014, 1:22 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 470


I must admit I think I typed this topic up on a day when I was particularly anxious, mad, and baffled by the notions of behavior and such. I had essentially just had more money stolen from me in the way of one more broken promise among many. The idea of not being taken seriously is not a new one to ...
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