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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2014, 11:08 pm
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| Oh, well. It appears she has just "unfriended" me. Unfortunate, as I haven't been "unfriended" by too many (though enough for me to comment on them on my page). It even seemed to be going relatively well, with some mild banter every now and then (unless I mistook it, of course). I'm feeling a tad di... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2014, 4:58 pm
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| Yes, I think I understand what you're getting at. Which is why I'm not necessarily taking my long pause as a reason to start up communicating just yet. I was actually trying to be very cautious here, for a similar reason to what you mentioned. That's actually why I took such a pause, to begin with. ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 7:53 pm
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| Okay, it's going on nine days without me responding with any questions (or there being any response from her, either). I'm starting to think from the way I left the last message, I might seem a little rude to drag this on so long without asking the questions I said I would. She definitely tried to g... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 14 Sep 2014, 4:24 pm
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| Dude, I don't really know anyone (not even people I thought I was supposed to). How exactly am I supposed to change that? I have people I have a greater need to try to know, and others I have a desire to keep myself from knowing. Oh, and thanks for the kind words. I guess you're not one of those her... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2014, 5:11 pm
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| Wow, man, that calmed me quite a bit. That seems to reach at much of where I'm coming from. But, do you think, then, that it wouldn't be the end of the world if I overstepped some, here? Still, would asking about things like her parents (or really, what they thought about me if she heard from them),... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2014, 5:32 pm
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| But, I don't know, is it really indicative of me being a "stalker" if I'm pretty much recounting all of my steps so far, right here...for you all to know (even for posterity, perhaps)? I mean, I was even inviting some of you to view my Facebook page to get an even closer look at my personality and a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2014, 1:48 pm
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| I really like that lower signature of yours about sin. Maybe that's telling me something, there. No, but really, I'm sensing something like what you said, myself (I was just hoping it was my inner coward telling me to go back into my shell). Which is exactly why I thought Facebook could be an ideal ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2014, 5:18 pm
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| Thanks, but I don't smoke. That's appreciated, none the less. It actually doesn't seem that I'm suffering when I think about this in retrospect. In fact, it seems just the opposite. I'm just a little anxious, in the mean time. Still, I have suspicions that the path to peace, for me, is actually in t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2014, 10:40 am
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| Thanks. So, I shouldn't ever bring it up, though? It was actually going to be my first question. Should I just bring up another, less peculiar question, now (like the question of whether she likes my page)? Maybe then I could gauge whether to bring up that incident. After all, she might still get wo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2014, 4:59 am
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| Not to be annoying here too. But I'm going to insist that anyone who might consider helping with this come in soon. I really don't want to test her patience any further. Should I ask about the incident with her parents? Or, maybe I could just ask if she checked out my page yet. Just...something. Sor... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2014, 7:43 pm
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| Okay, it might be just a little bit more complicated, now (though, I could be overreacting). It's just kind of happening in real time. Which is why I'm going to ask that whoever may care to advise me here, do so relatively quickly. Let's just say that I'm not noticing any more emoticons, lately. I w... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 4:37 pm
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| Well, that was a little too much the other way. Almost too encouraging. I actually intend to be very careful in anything I do. I'm just trying to gauge how to move forward, really. I'm playing this as I go, still. But, I am mellowing just a little bit on any thought about going too far with her. May... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 3:11 pm
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| Actually, it is kind of like journaling for me. Something in these experiences, inexplicably feels like it's going to be very important in the future. If you checked out my Facebook page you'd actually notice that a great many of my posts on various subjects are quite long, also. They can be overwhe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2014, 4:42 pm
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| Okay, should that be considered a "yes", "no", or "no comment"? Sorry, just kidding (but, only slightly). Anyway, I wouldn't be obsessing over the past, if it's the future I'm talking about, now would I? This was initially started as a step away from my parents, after all. Besides, what is it with t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2014, 4:27 pm
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2014, 2:49 am
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| Okay, so I sent her a message. Just to clarify that it wasn't a mistake on her part, in "friending" me, and that she did know who I am. I, also, did eventually see the notice of her acceptance. Anyway, very late on that same night she responded. She said it wasn't a mistake at all. And she hoped I w... |
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