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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 11 May 2015, 12:26 pm
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Thank you folks. I really appreciate your posts. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 5:33 pm
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I have been feeling down myself today also, so I can relate to your distress. Last night I noticed it is a full moon; for now I choose to suspect the full moon, combined with mild hay fever, has contributed to my despondency. I am going to try to just keep calm and wait it out and see if I don't fe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 5:32 pm
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Your situation sounds very difficult and I am sorry your are in such. I have had similar feelings and experiences at times but not to the intensity. I would suggest trying therapy of some kind. It is not the ultimate solution or a cure-all but it can help some. Potential aids are worth a try when o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 3:25 pm
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@emu egg That you for relating and I agree. ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_sad.gif) |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 2:33 pm
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I happened upon something called Inner Influencing that helped me at one point: http://www.innerinfluencing.com And I'm using the video at this site: http://www.quantumk.co.uk/quantumk_video.htm And I'm doing other practices to help me connect to the energies of nature that seem to assist in findin... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 2:33 pm
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Replies: 22 Views: 1,949
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You are not alone in situation. It sounds like among other things you are experiencing extreme anhedonia, anxiety, and existential depression. To ease the severity you may have to start off with small changes. Physical exercise is a good place to start . You could also try to improve your nutrition... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 1:01 pm
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If not offline, you have us, fellow WPers, here. I'm sure there are many on WP feeling similarly. Why do you hate music now? There are many inexpensive hobbies you could try, such as learning a foreign language. You can try getting to know people through something like that. If not comfortable offl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 12:59 pm
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I wish I had an answer for you. I feel similarly. I got to a place in my life where things are somewhat better, but still, the future scares me because things do change, and I have nothing but hope that something new would fill in the void when it happens. At most, I learned to just accept that thi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm in isolation, lonely and it's killing me. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 03 May 2015, 12:15 pm
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I know I have more than most people. A roof, food, a bed, cable and a dog. I've never felt in place. Today isn't just bad, it's one of those very special Asperger meltdown/panic/supra-depression/PTSD/self hate wish I'd never been born or known of existence at all days. The only thing keeping me aliv... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: PTSD, nightmares and flash backs |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 1:02 am
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I have always had trouble sleeping since I was five or six. My grandmother, who was my best friend died when I was 10. I did not have these problems in school. I did not have them at college or when I was juggling a full time band and a full time job. Then I had a girlfriend who cheated on me twice,... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: My music |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 25 Oct 2014, 10:49 pm
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: My music |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 25 Oct 2014, 6:07 pm
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: crappy saturday. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 25 Oct 2014, 4:45 pm
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My grandpa might have a blood clot in his leg. ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_sad.gif) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Chosen abstinence, can't stop thinking about women. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 25 Oct 2014, 4:34 pm
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Thanks. I can get that. The only problem is that I'm not so confidently dancing behind the beat. I'm an actual musician with actual stage fright and who's so sick of the bar/music scene I just can't do that. I'm really actually socially anxious. It can be decisively paralyzing. That's one thing. I w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Chosen abstinence, can't stop thinking about women. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 25 Oct 2014, 2:22 pm
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I had my first real girlfriend in 1995. She was wonderfully beautiful and artistically talented and we even recorded music together. I was IN LOVE. She told me she was too. Things were fine for a couple of years. We traveled and did all sorts of fun stuff. Then she started treating me like s**t in f... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I seriously don't know what to do. |
WeAteSand |
Posted: 25 Aug 2014, 10:57 pm
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Hi. I'm trying but when in meltdown I separate. It's the only thing that feels safe. I'm feeling better but this desert summer is so oppresive and it confines you. I keep dreaming of ways to make money. |
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