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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Short men frowned upon! |
| qFox |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2017, 3:40 pm
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Replies: 140
Views: 5,906
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| The reality is that the standards of women is almost universal. A tall guy will always be seen as superior by the vast majority of the women. It is the same for being thin, having muscles, being confident, etc. Men are the more experimental sex. Some men like thin women, other like chubby women. Som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What makes someone unattractive? |
| qFox |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2017, 3:33 pm
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Replies: 138
Views: 5,822
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| Attractiveness is 90% genetics. A really attractive guy that isn't socially impaired that smokes, drinks and doesn't eat healthy will still be seen as attractive. Even if he treats women badly, jumps from one partner to the other and doesn't take care of himself he will still be seen as attractive. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you know if you're ready for a relationship? |
| qFox |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2017, 9:26 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,264
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| The problem is that unless you are lucky you need tremendous amounts of social training before even being able to attract someone, no matter if you are a ready or not for a relationship. By that time people in your age range already lost their innocence and have much experience behind them. There is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you be happy while you're single? |
| qFox |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2017, 4:14 pm
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Replies: 75
Views: 4,349
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| Yes, but not everyone. Some people feel perfectly happy single and simply see a partner as an addition to their life. There are just as many people that do not feel complete when single and see a partner as an integral part of their life. I think the whole "everyone can be happy when single&quo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How not to Tinder |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2017, 4:08 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,387
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| Many people also seem to use Tinder as a way to feel better about themselves, toy with people or vent their anger onto others. It's beyond sad but then again there's so many jackasses in the world of every type. Thankfully Tinder doesn't give a lot of information about you and as long as you use pic... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hollywood's Exclusion of Autistic Actors Highlights its Biggest Diversity Problem: Disability |
| qFox |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2017, 6:13 pm
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Replies: 90
Views: 11,377
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| This is just ridiculous. If you are a good actor and more importantly you have the connections they will have you. That is where the trouble starts: we are generally horrible at acting like a normal person and our social circle is usually very limited. It has nothing to do with diversity or discrimi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone else hate dating? |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2017, 5:40 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,867
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| I absolutely despise dating! As a guy dating is pretty much exactly like searching for a job, except instead of being judged by your skills and work you are judged based on your genetic profile. If you do not meet the average requirement in both the looks and the social skill department, or even wo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: why do NT get mad when they know you are right? |
| qFox |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2016, 7:34 pm
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Replies: 76
Views: 2,533
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| It is not exclusive to NT. Most people cannot separate emotion from rationality. That is why discussions tend to become more emotionally loaded as people have less rational arguments to make. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and Sleeping |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:06 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,231
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| I am nocturnal. My energy always spikes at night regardless of my sleeping pattern and I think this is more common than one would think. I like to visit a 24 hour gym around midnight and there's quite a few other people around usually. This however also means that if you follow regular class / worki... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autistic or person with autism? SURVEY |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 7:01 pm
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Replies: 72
Views: 3,677
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| I take more offense at the attitude of PC idiots than anything people have ever called me. I am autistic aka socially ret*d. Whether some people say that in a nice or a not so nice way does not change the fact or matter, you will occasionally get treated like s**t regardless of how people word it. T... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: 1Million Dollars Vs Lose Your Aspergers. |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2016, 12:10 am
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Replies: 155
Views: 5,976
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| If I could relive my life without autism, that to me is worth more than a million dollars. Some things cannot be described in money. Even though in my line of work well over 6 figures with enough experience is not uncommon, I really do not care all that much about money. As long as I have everything... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Rampage killer Chris Harper-Mercer was an Aspie |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2015, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 181
Views: 9,720
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| I think anyone who shoots up a school is a psychopath to begin with. True to some extend, but in the end it's the environment that puts people like this over the edge. The hatred that was shown was the exact same hatred that was put in and manifested into his psyche. This was an action that was pla... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are male Aspies at an disadvantage? |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2015, 3:49 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 2,624
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| Absolutely, I don't think anyone can deny that a lack of genuine companionship and intimacy is one of the biggest frustrations men with autism face. There are massive communities of socially awkward men well in their 20s and 30s who have never experienced a real relationship despite many efforts. It... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
| qFox |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2015, 10:05 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,610
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| The problem for a lot of us is that the only time we ever meet other people on a level other than complete stranger is in school, college or university. Even then most of our experiences with these few people were mostly negative, bullying and isolation are not all too rare for people with autism. T... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do Men with Asperger's Initiate Dates? |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2015, 5:52 pm
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Replies: 119
Views: 9,123
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| Yes, but as many here later I found out that many women love to lie and that hurts a lot. It was always the same: either "I don't really have time" followed by completely ignoring me, calling the date off last moment or not showing up at the date at all. Never have I had a clear, straight ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is Germany an aspie paradise? |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2015, 5:14 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,098
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| Germans accept somewhat brash and direct behaviour but they will still reject you if they sense you are different. Just like any other culture. As long as every single society is driven by human greed and animalistic instinct on the macro level there is no such thing as an aspie paradise. Most with ... |
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