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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do I do about a controlling girlfriend? |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015, 11:16 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,658
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| Leave. You are not winning someone's trust or showing them you have what it takes to love her. There will never be a day where you prove yourself and the tests stop. She will get worse and worse and make more confusing demands as long as you keep enabling her. This woman may be ready to date someday... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are autistic people more immature |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015, 8:23 am
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Replies: 88
Views: 31,562
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| "Well if immature is running around, going to bars and raves, drinking and getting drunk, smoking the occasional joint and having sex with someone on the first, second, or third date, then people with AS generally aren't, and NT's generally are. " I agree that it's stupid. I've heard lots... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: why do women have to be so mean and condecending |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015, 8:18 am
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Replies: 102
Views: 3,506
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| Personally I think Aspie women should be less condescending and sneering to immature AS men, unless those men are being blatantly misogynist. Aspie women have maturity thrust upon them, with the pressures on them and the fact that men are more often predatory/forceful. I'm not saying it's a fun life... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie girls What do guys do wrong? |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015, 8:05 am
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Replies: 61
Views: 3,779
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| Personally - and this is me talking about the specific culture I live in - I have believed for years that the main place Aspies fall down in flirting is the "play fighting" aspect. For example when I was at work a woman came to a male colleague and asked for the walkie-talkie, and he said ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Why are men better at Chess than women? |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2015, 8:00 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,247
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| In the countries where Chess is big, like Russia, they put more effort into training men and boys. A female would not get the same pushes or chances/pressure to practice. Though I've always thought it was stupid that they divide Chess tournaments by gender, as its not a physical sport. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: WHAT ARE YOUR DEAL BREAKERS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS? |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 2:21 pm
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Replies: 353
Views: 12,864
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| another red flag for me. That drugged, dead- eyed look of dopey aggression - the Britanny Murphy/Courtney Love/ Lana Del Rey/Chloe Sevigny look. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A Self-Made-Man girl discovers that life as a man is harder |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2015, 8:46 am
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Replies: 290
Views: 10,950
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| I don't think it's possible to "learn all about NT women", they're a vastly varied group ranging from shy and studious to loud, dumb and aggressive. Unless it's treating them as human beings which Aspies need to learn to do with all people. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to deal with no contact with ex |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2015, 7:50 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,746
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| I'm a mass of tics and stims, blinking, tapping, gulping loudly, grabbing any small object to throw in the air and catch again. I was always in trouble for it as a kid. Sorry to hear you've had a rough c-ptsd giving life NyxBean. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A Self-Made-Man girl discovers that life as a man is harder |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2015, 5:44 am
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Replies: 290
Views: 10,950
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| to be fair though, the threat of assault/stalking probably cancels out being bored by women's bad social skills or the horribleness of judged by your wealth or toughness, though I do think those are genuinely miserable things for male aspies to deal with in dating. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you ever get so pissed |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2015, 3:18 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 693
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that sucks....
you could post this to a facebook
I want to post this one to my face book, but I worried I would get arrested.
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: In Defense of Princess Peach |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2015, 3:16 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,105
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| I like how she could fly in the old SNES Mario. She could be a bit clumsy to play as though. I can't remember which SNES Mario game was which. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A Self-Made-Man girl discovers that life as a man is harder |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2015, 2:55 am
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Replies: 290
Views: 10,950
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| [quote="nurseangela"Have any of the men here tried to understand women at all? Read any books on the subject of women?[/quote] Personally, I would not read books by women if I was in another relationship, because I don't believe most people are able to be honest about what they want. Most ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hey! |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 3:06 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 259
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Bantanium wrote: Soo... this is new.
Not really. It's been online over 10 years now. Welcome by the way. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A Self-Made-Man girl discovers that life as a man is harder |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 2:54 pm
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Replies: 290
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| I agree. There's a woman at the autism meetup I go to who is very glamorous and model-looking, and the men in the group crowd round her and beg for her attention like lapdogs. You see her in the cafe we go to, and some of them are on their knees around her. I may have rejected the teachings of PUAs ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: WHAT ARE YOUR DEAL BREAKERS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS? |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 12:20 pm
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Replies: 353
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| I would never approach you then zeromancerlove. I can't stand any of the music in your sigline. |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Video games at Walmart behind glass. |
| tombo12boar |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,056
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| I knew someone once who had to go around his store, on the first day the Nintendo DS came out, offering turns to customers, with one strapped to his wrist for security, in a kind of handcuff. He heard a rumor that a gang was coming to the store with axes to chop the employees hands off and snatch th... |
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