I doubt that you will be successful in your efforts to integrate the theory of evolution and theology.
I honestly don't think you should try.
I don't think there are any gods or anything supernatural. I don't think that theology has anything to offer us.
The theory of evolution is a rich and beautiful scientific theory that is remarkably well supported by the evidence and is the foundation of modern biology.
There is absolutely no need to hypothesize a god or creator or to suggest that that evolution is in any way 'directed', for there are no gaps in science that these things could fill.
The ideas of theology are superfluous and irrelevant to science, and therefore to trying to understand reality.
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