If you mean get your own email address, maybe
[email protected]You can create your own website and you get email addresses included.
I bought the name at namecheap.com, and I bought web hosting at serversanddomains.com, but they changed hands since I bought it. You can also buy the name and the website at one place, for instance, godaddy.com
Then many of them use this software called cPanel, I think it runs on Linux/Apache, but don't hold me to it. I am by far so NOT an expert on hosting, there have GOT to be Aspies with more experience than me. I had all these elaborate plans, then I found online gaming and said to hell with it. I still use my site for hosting pics. I costs me like $30/year, so I just keep it, some times I need to host a picture, but more and more websites let you upload pics any more.
I do not use the email service, I started with yahoo, picked up a gmail when I got an Android phone, and just never bothered to switch over. Keep in mind you would have to pay that $30/year.
There is probably a cheaper way to get your own stuff - I would Google it.