CowboyFromHell wrote:
without meaning to be sexist, as a dude movies usually don't get me choked up.
Same here... an hour just usually isn't enough time for me to become emotionally invested enough in a character, that their demise (or tragedy, or romantic fulfilment or whatever else gets people choked up) hits me hard enough to elicit such a strong response... There are always exceptions of course, such as I Am Sam, and the first My Girl movie (though that was when I was like 13

) and *perhaps* one or two others that I can't think of right now, but most of my emotional experiences with media have been with TV series... I watch them only from DVD or digital copies, so no ads or weeks between or betwixt episodes to kill the mood of course. I can remember getting choked up at a couple of BtVS episodes, and most recently at one of the almost-end-of-season/show eps of The West Wing (just watched all seven seasons [157 episodes] over the past 3 months).
Is anyone else like me in that they don't react much emotionally to situations in their own lives, but have a strong empathy towards those close to you? For example, when two of my grandparents died a couple of years ago (within 3 months of each other), and dad was saying a few words at the church service for grandpa (they were his parents), up to that point I had just been a little bummed out about it but nothing major (they were in their 80s and grandpa'd survived through so much it was a miracle he made it to that - and of course cracking jokes right up till the end lol, he had a good life), but as soon as dad's voice cracked when he was talking, I had tears in my eyes, for him, because I love him and I knew he was hurting. I'm not sure what point I'm trying to make here, but I think I was going to come to this question eventually:
Do any of you find it easier to react emotionally to fictional characters than those in 'real life'?