Hey...new here...new aspie....first post!
The first crush I ever remember having for anyone (real or imagined) was Commander Riker. Just such a he-man. Lol. I liked him better with a beard though, for some reason.
As I got older I felt more of a connection to Commander Data though...I feel we have a lot in common. I always dreamed of myself as a technopath arriving on the enterprise and helping Data to fall in love with me by manipulating his sensory processors etc etc.......
Not trek, I always loved Maelgwn in Tracie Harding's books, Mr Darcy, and Batman. Something about Kevlar-clad giant rodents...