I just re-watched a really great hour-long portrayal of an Aspie last night, on The Twilight Zone's 1963 episode called "Miniature". A young Robert Duvall plays a man in his thirties, who has always been single, makes poor eye contact, does good work at the office but never talks to or feels close to his co-workers, and they all think he's weird, including his boss.
His sister says she knows what his "problem" is: "You need a girl," she declares directly. His eyes somewhat dim and glaze, as if he's thinking, "Wow, what a misdiagnosis." She sets him up on a date, and pushes him into going on it. He's clearly not into it at all, because his date is loud, brash, and trashy. He's polite with her, but awkward and clumsy. I mean, they even got the eye contact right! He is just SO Aspie all the way through the episode, and his Asperger's is specifically what everyone keeps griping at him about, even though they don't know it's AS, but just think he's crazy. They send him to a psychiatrist, whom he eventually tricks into thinking he's "cured", so he can leave. But all the other characters are very NT, and also shown as crude and boorish, as they would seem to his perspective. He's the most sensitive and imaginative of them all. He's got one overriding obsession through the whole episode. It's totally harmless, but his family keeps harping at him about how he's just "not normal", and his boss fires him because he's not a "team player" and tells him: "You just don't fit in. Understand?" His boss asks him if he likes his co-workers. The Aspie employee pauses, and says, "Well... I suppose so..." His boss replies, "You suppose so?!?" The Aspie says, "I never really thought about it."
He also displays a private physical outburst of extreme rage at the fact that everyone's trying to change him -- dispite the fact that he never shows the slightest anger in front of others -- he keeps it all bottled up, because he senses they just don't, and won't, understand him. They tell him he's "sick", and declare, "You're just not normal!" The psychiatrist does wisely state to his family, however, that they shouldn't be imposing their definition of "normal" upon other people, because, quite naturally, one's person's "bizarre" is another person's "normal". When they throw judgments like that at him, he just slightly smiles a bit uncomfortably, as if to shrug, "They just can't understand."
Of course, no single character can represent every kind of Aspie, since we're so diverse, but this was a really good portrayal of a person who has a lot of the common traits to a 'T'.
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