Spoilers don't bother me because no.1, just like the OP said, I still get to see HOW "whatever" happens; and no.2, I'll, most likely, forget what the spoiler said, before I see it; so, I always read spoilers. I'm like a kid, that way----whatever I'm told NOT to do, is the exact thing I WANT to do! LOL
Another example is: When I "watch" TV, I'm often really just listening----because I like to play chess, or do something else, at-the-same-time----but, when they say something like, "Warning, this may be disturbing to some viewers and you may not want to see this", I IMMEDIATELY quit whatever else I'm doing, and I'm all eyes and ears!! It might be my ego, or something----like: "Oh, I ain't scared of nothin'! !"; so, I have to watch it, to PROVE it!! LOL
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White female; age 59; diagnosed Aspie.
I use caps for emphasis----I'm NOT angry or shouting. I use caps like others use italics, underline, or bold.
"What we know is a drop; what we don't know, is an ocean." (Sir Isaac Newton)