Sparrowrose wrote:
Mercurial wrote:
Bones I think they want to be Aspie-ish, but sometimes the writing for that character pisses me off. They tend to exaggerate her social deficits to the point it make her look silly or soulless.
Is that really how she comes across? Because I've been told that I behave like her and hadn't realized it was meant as an insult.
That how it comes across to me, and it's only sometimes. Sometimes I think Bones is a good example of a woman with Asperger's. I will say, I'm good there is such a character on TV--I get pretty tired of people thinking only men and boys have AS.
And people have compared me to Bones too. I wouldn't be bothered by that--when NTs make that kind of comparison, they are thinking in vague generalities, not by point-by-point details the way we Aspie probably would.
Plus, NTs tend to see very cerebral or not emotionally expressive women as oddities, so we might seem all the same to them, despite glaring differences between us as individuals. It's like how someone who doesn't know jazz very well thinks it all sounds the same, yet someone who knows jazz very well can tell between the different styles and eras and such.