Jennifer Aniston admits 'Friends' might offend today's kids

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I always thought Ross and Monica were Jewish too, not that it matters.

The Holiday Armadillo taught Ross's son about Hanukkah.

My daughter is mid-20's and still loves Friends.

fwiw I liked All in the Family too, and I learned a lot through Archie.

Friends was the probably the last popular sitcom of the pre-internet age so I'm actually not sure its even culturally relevant to the current generation of 20 somthings.

The only thing cringey about Friends (and I think all of the cast are 100% aware of this) is how in a multicultural place like New York how young white people from different locations manage to somehow find living spaces where only people who look like them exist. After several seasons it becomes painfully obvious that none of the cast have friends of different cultures or races. Eventually in the final season they had to manufacture Ross dating a black girl but by then the damage was done.

As far as what Aniston is talking about, there was nothing in their lame conversations that was offensive. I think she was/still is avoiding the elephant in the room.

I never watched Friends.

I grew up watching All in the Family. I think that the problem with that show was that a lot of people missed the irony, and took Archie Bunker as a role model.

I only watched a few episodes of Friends. As a baby boomer I just did not get a show that was very Generation X oriented.

As far as the show being all white they are being damned because of this. They would be damned for cultural appropriation if they had a diverse cast. Lose Lose.

The all white cast was authentic to the neighborhood it was set in. Despite what you see in the streets of New York looks like it is more segregated then the south as has been for a long time.

All In The Family was an anti racist liberal show but it was no woke show and not only because they did not use euphemisms for slurs. The good people were not always so good, and the bad people not always so bad. Jefferson was just as much of a racist as Archie, liberal Mike was sexist and called out for it. Archie was both abusive and loving in his own way.

Did the show affirm peoples racism? For some it did, most infamously President Nixon, but I believe the show did help heal the country from Vietnam and other divisions of the time because it made us laugh at ourselves. They were extreme versions of ourselves but they were us or somebody we knew.

As brilliantly acted and written as the show was it would not have worked without the use of words such as n****r, fa***t etc and with the liberals being purely righteous people, and Archie purely evil. That is what Anniston was getting at. Would have it been nice if she mentioned lack of diversity, yeah but there are plenty of people doing that, we need more people pointing out what she pointed out. She did blame the shown for being insensitive. Note she said “we should have thought it through”, that means her personally.

I saw this on Facebook. I love Friends Too bad it only on HBO Max, I don’t have cable.

I never watched it. But sometimes things just age poorly. What was acceptable back then often is not acceptable now. Just take it as a product of its time, I doubt there was any ill intent behind the disagreeable stuff.

I don't think it's aged any more poorly than any other sitcom.
Sitcoms themselves have aged now that most TV is those streaming dramas or reality TV.