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hermit
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21 Dec 2005, 12:57 am

Just doing the hello thing.

29 and closing fast on 30.

Led an interesting life so far, hard to say it's been productive, every day has been "an experience" at best, but it might make a decent movie if I can figure out a Hollywood ending. This year many things conspired to get me into therapy, upon which Asperger's and attending other issues were "discovered".

I always thought I was, I don't know, a loser I guess. Unable to keep jobs or friends despite a raging intellect, I fell into some bad habits to self-medicate. The booze is long gone, and it wasn't until several years of desperately trying to organize ANYTHING in my life I saw some light...

It's not ME that has a problem.......

It's everyone else!

So, howdy. Nice to meet y'all.



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21 Dec 2005, 1:22 am

Hello :D



hermit
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21 Dec 2005, 2:14 am

frog1: Howdy, and hello yourself. Looks like you're at least fortunate that they've figured it out when you were young, that'll give you a head start!

Just thought I'd post a little more, if anyone cares to read it, read on.

Let's see, talking about myself is not something I'm good at.

I enjoy fishing, hiking, and generally being in nature. I have a rowboat and a kayak, and would get a slightly larger fishing boat had I the resources. While loving the outdoors, trees, birds, plants, flowers, rocks, etc, I am overwhelmingly obsessed with fishing, all types. I live in the Finger Lakes region of New York, currently frozen to the couch. I fish year round, except for right now. There isn't enough ice to go icefishing but there is too much to take out the rowboat. I'll fish for anything, although living in the North I'm generally a trout, salmon, and steelhead fisherman. Fly fishing, fly tying, anybody ever wants to talk fishing I'm game!!

I graduated from college, dropped out of grad school, and have been stumbling around for a while. I'm currently in the process of being diagnosed with Asperger's, ADD, and Cyclothymia. Looking back to my childhood it's sort of amazing my folks never realized something was wrong (not wrong, different!)- but, then again, they're a little odd themselves. One of the first things I told my new doc was "I ate Cheerios for breakfast EVERY day for 10 years and threw an absolute fit if I couldn't have them." Her response was priceless. I can't remember what it was, but it was an epiphany to be sure. Since then I've been reading as much as possible about all PDD's, the spectrum, and everything else I can get my hands on. Most of the time it helps, but sometimes the sheer weight of difference gets me down.

Currently, today the 21st I'm on the positive side of things, perhaps a little too positive. Haven't been sleeping much recently nor interacting with the outside.

I have been tying dozens of flies, and have had to use them a few times in the past few weeks, but the doldrums between the end of the fall runs and before ice is tough. Also, due to low sun levels fish activity is relatively low.

I suppose that's enough of an introduction, I don't know what y'all would possibly want to know anyway!

PS

I'm very good natured, love/hate people, appreciate good discussions especially about science, and if I *EVER* offend anyone in a post it's a complete accident, I'm the least confrontational person I've ever met. That's part of why I avoid people, the pain evident in the world can be way to much sometimes... I'll do whatever I can to not add to it.



larsenjw92286
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21 Dec 2005, 3:52 pm

Hi

Welcome! I have the problem of showing unintentional offense as well, and wow, you've been diagnosed with Asperger's, ADD, and another disability? It sounds like you have had quite a life, and what I have read about you has had me thinking, "You'd fit in with us very well!" Sure, we make faux-pas after faux-pas, but we are smart, and we will have an answer to any question you may have.

Have fun posting here!


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21 Dec 2005, 4:24 pm

Greetings!

You sound like me.
I'm a self Dx'd AS, but Dx'd ADD when I was 10.
I'm half-heartedly looking into getting officialy Dx'd AS.

Again, Welcome! :D



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21 Dec 2005, 6:14 pm

Raging intellect.

very good and very welcome.

try the poitics religion and philosophy forum
gen. discussion is good also.
steer clear of the mature forum, not what it seems, morehumor. but if you need a good laugh, then give it a whirl.


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hermit
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21 Dec 2005, 11:16 pm

Thanks folks, it's good to be home.

SB2, you have made me feel quite welcome already and I thank you for that. Must have been joking around upon my initial arrival that did it...

I shall check out the forums as suggested, I've done some already but there's a lot to get through. Politics, I don't know. It tends to be depressing. I'm doing my best to personally cecede from the U.S. without leaving this particular spot.

Others, well, hello back. I look forward to getting to know some folks like me a little better...