Quote:
I found out the meticulous way I do my laundry, the way I clean my floors and bath and kitchen is all ritual. I told him I thought it was because I needed to remember what to do next. He said I probably knew what to do next, being intelligent and all, I just was compelled to do it in a specific way, and couldn't leave it half done ( I wanted to say if I couldn't do it right I didn't want to do it at all, but I figured out that was even more of an indicator I was ritual bound, and I didn't even MENTION I had wanted to be a nun ( I was raised Methodist) because I loved the rituals
Wow! I have felt exactly the same way about what I do. I walk around the house to find out what I need to do next. I put things in piles so that I can do them in the right order. It is VERY hard to do something when it isn't set up that way. Especially if it is not something that engages my "over-focusing". I have NEVER thought of all that as a ritual, although I really like all the things that are normally called rituals.
I feel like it is just like the story of Einstein. He fussed at the ticket taker on the train when the ticket taker said he didn't need to see Einstein's ticket. (The ticket taker recognized the famous man and assumed he wasn't trying to get a free ride.) Einstein said something like "It is NOT alright that I can't find the ticket! If I can't find the ticket, I won't know where to get off the train!!"
If the world doesn't give me cues, I won't know what to do next. It is part of the reason (maybe the biggest reason) that I seldom lie.
So now it is a RITUAL. I'll have to think about that a while!
Oh! Typical aspie congratulations! (I think a socially aware mind would have put congrats up front)
Nada, nada, yadda, yadda,
Skeeterhawk
and when I post on WP, I sign my name, even though people have told me they would know who wrote the post, but I sign my name because I have to.