hi all, my name is jess and im 21 yeras old with this disorder aspergers, i just joined this am. nice site alex!! glad u made a place for all to become a community. it took alot of thinking and 2 people who made me think of joining, ljbouchard and exiled sage. over the years since birth in 1984 i ahd differant dxes. first and last was aspergers. when i was 3 it was aspergers then elementry age from 6 to 11 i was givin adhd then from 11 to 17 i was givin pdd nos then from last year of high shcool to now is aspergers. i was diagnosed by school psycologist i was in special ed all my life beucase really early i ahd some late milestones i talked on time and some physical stuff accept walking i didn twalk til i was 6 years old( REALLY late) if i didnt walk for another week or so i probably would have had braces on my legs like forrest gump's. i was thien givin pt and ot and speech therapy and placed in a school for physical disabilities(i was only kid there not in a wheelchair or using walking aids) i was there from prek to 3rd grade. from then ithen was givin the dx of adhd and palced in an elementry school for emotional problems in a speical needs school district (same district as school for physical) they seen i was happy and enjoyed fixing cars and watching my dad and try to help and also go camping this happyness in their eyes they assumed i had adhd badly and i was placed on ritalin. it did was make me appear to be depressed all the time, my handwriting was also very very sloppy. (looks like that of a pre schooler) and i told them so what im happy, im sure if u came off ur bus on friday afternoons and get taken straight into family vehicle headed to campground im sure ud be happy as a clown too on weekends!! ! after 3 yeras of ritalin, ot and some speach i then moved to middle school (local public city run district) and taken off the ritalin to see if i can function and i made out ok and was placed in 6th grade and that swhwn i was givin pdd nos and as my ieps developled they starteed seeing a pattern of likenesses and dislikings and them knowing i came from a speical needs district they kept me in special ed to prevent any problems with academics. then in high school the academic part was getting too easy and i wanted a challenge and this is when my parents had to start fighting iep for correct placement. i feel i should have been tested or givin option to actually try testing to see were they stand in their state's academic levels. i then foudn out the school's interpetiation of developmental was involving mental problems or cant function normally like a nt would. i was givin the slowest possible public high school classes as the grade levels went up the easier it got(12th grade felt like kindergarten!!) i then figured hmm probably handwriting, then i found a way to write neatly with a door closing device and hsowed it to my 12th grade english teacher and she dint like it that much ( hate that teacher !) (*she now is an advocate for an autism chapter in nj) i feel bad for any aspie or autitis in nj who neends help form external evices such as alphasmart(mini laptop) or made their own and approved by child study team, me and another girl who was in a wheelchair (she had spina bifida) were told we cannot use adaptive devices cause we can live our lives wihtout them and to embarraqssing to write with a device meant for pulling commerical doors shut. i told her well if i was a teacher id rather see one of my students who is well behaved and creative use a device not meant for writing to help in the process of writing then rather see their sloppy unreadable chicken scratch, so what i did was told child study team and they allowed me to use it and later i found out that that school if ur a teacher u cannot tell poeple in speical ed tehy cannot use that here or get fired. and also to see the person for who they are not their external things.
this high shcol gave me bull about oders yes, i said it ODERS, they thougth i had BO!! they thought this when i came back in beginning of 11th grade to greet the new school year with the stench of hydrualic oil (like the smell u smell in an auto repair shop) in the halls