archaist wrote:
sinsboldly:
Thank you for the insight! I will definitely see about speaking to a psychologist. I'm open to the possibility that I don't have AS but it seems like the criteria used by professionals isn't all that different from the criteria you encounter in online quizzes. The main advantage I see in getting a legitimate diagnosis is just that I don't really trust myself to self-diagnose... though I am quite honest with myself about these things. If I do get diagnosed, I most likely won't tell anyone close to me (especially not my parents), but just use it as a frame of reference when trying to cope with social anxiety and other day-to-day challenges.
It's good to know your employers are accommodating you. I don't see myself needing anything like that, personally. But it would be nice if people understood me well enough not to misinterpret the things I say and do...
Very important is to not tell them what you think you 'have'. Tell them you are there for an evaluation, that you feel you need to understand why you have been feeling this way. They like the idea you are going to be open with your 'feelings' (even if what I 'felt' was I had no idea what I was 'feeling!'.)
The reason they accomodate me is because I was DXed AFTER I got the job and had two years of stellar job evaluations. I probably couldn't get another job, the age and the disability and all.
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