Hello goofyjimbo, welcome,
I'm Dutch.
I suppose you live in the USA. I hope you'll get this new health care legislation, so you don't have to pay a lot for getting diagnosed. So maybe if you wait a little you can get diagnosed without having to pay for getting diagnosed.
And did you know you can actually edit your posts if you click on the "edit" button in the upper right corner, so you don't have to post two topics, and you can also post a reply to your first post in your topic, so you'll only have one thread/topic, if you want to add something.
Anyway, enjoy your stay on the Wrong Planet!
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1975, ASD: Asperger's Syndrome (diagnosed: October 22, 2009)
Interests: science, experimental psychology, psychophysics, music (listening and playing (guitar)) and visual arts
Don't focus on your weaknesses, focus on your strengths