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Xabbu
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23 May 2010, 10:00 am

Hi there,
I'm a Belgian aspie (male), I'm 31 years old now. I've been diagnosed more than 2 years ago. I failed college two times, mainly because of my autism but I got a job in computer support in 1999. That time was a golden year to star in IT. I 've successfully earned my bachelor degree in library sciences, taking lessons during evenings and weekends. Last year I was fired, again my socials skills and not being flexible where the main reason. I was fed up with computer support anyway. So I didn't really mind. They paid me a fair amount which I'm using now when I'm unemployed but happy. I use my time to study and read. I started at Open University (bachelor computer sciences). I made my first exams and it was pretty good. Within a few months I'll start a full time training in webdevelopment. After 9 months I can take a internship for about 6 weeks and then I will be ready for my next job: php-developer.
I have a girlfriend, we 're together since 1997. We had our problems in the relationship. I don't have to tell you the reasons I think. But I think we 're doing fine now.
I also have OCD. I try to control it with prescribed drugs. I had a very bad time a couple of years ago and that finally made clear to me that I had to visit a psychiatrist who finally diagnosed me as an Asperger with OCD.
Besides computers, I like reading, horses and painting.
My social life is non-existing. Work was my social life but now I'm unemployed. :mrgreen: I have a girlfriend and we live together and that's it. Once every 4 months I meet some other aspies I've met once. I have almost no contact with my parents or brother. That's quite a complicated story. Oh, I also have an appointment every 3 weeks with my psychologist, who supports and coaches me in study, relationship, choices, making things clear,...
So, This is me.
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23 May 2010, 10:05 am

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23 May 2010, 10:25 am

It's nice to meet you, Xabbu - welcome to the Wrong Planet Community.


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23 May 2010, 10:35 am

Welcome to WrongPlanet, Xabbu!



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23 May 2010, 12:23 pm

It's nice to meet you Xabbu. I hope you find a job where the people understand the reasons that your social skills aren't so well developed and that your skills and gifts can be greatly appreciated. I hope your meds don't make it impossible for you to drink. It'd be terrible to be in Belgium surrounded by the best ale and beer in the world and not able to enjoy it.



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23 May 2010, 1:17 pm

Welcome to WrongPlanet, and welcome to my time warp. :)


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23 May 2010, 1:55 pm

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24 May 2010, 4:29 am

Kiley wrote:
It's nice to meet you Xabbu. I hope you find a job where the people understand the reasons that your social skills aren't so well developed and that your skills and gifts can be greatly appreciated. I hope your meds don't make it impossible for you to drink. It'd be terrible to be in Belgium surrounded by the best ale and beer in the world and not able to enjoy it.

:D I have to be carefull combining drinking and meds but I still enjoy the beers! Strong beers like Kasteelbier, Duvel and Gouden Carolus are my favorite beers.



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24 May 2010, 6:39 am

Hello Xabbu, welcome, enjoy your stay on the Wrong Planet!


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