I'm new, but shockingly, that is a common story on this thread. So I'm contesting over how to be original and make an actual impression. I'm Chris and live in Iowa with my Brazilian wife and 18 month old son. After 4 years of marriage and countless arguments about not being responsible, I finally had my eyes open to other possibilities. I'm studying to be a nurse and with this knowledge of new syndromes and diseases, I stumbled upon Asperger's and autism. While reading the symptoms of Aspie's, I made a lot of connections with memories throughout childhood. It all just made sense. So I'm not really diagnosed, but I highly suspect it. So here I am, ready to learn more through friendly interactions and good people.