YES, YES, and yes!! ! I have a black book with my days blocked in for almost everything I have to do, if it is not in the book it doesn't get done!! My husband always jokes about penciling him in I seriously have a place for "get kids off bus" "pick up baby from pre school" "take out trash" and my personal favorite "remember to eat!". I also forgot to buy food for the dog and cat this week I will have to put "buy pet food" in the book. If I forget to look in my book I loose track of what I need to do and appointment's are impossible to keep without it. I look in it all the time, it has blocks for each half hour of the day and the days of the week are all in a row, that makes it easy to see what tomorrow looks like! The only thing I have to remember is to look in it and not to lose it!! I keep it in a special pocket in my backpack (I would lose a regular purse). My husband put notes in it once in a while if he needs something done, If your wife is the organizer and remembers all that stuff it might be nice if she could look in it once a week (since she is busy) then she could adjust what needs to be done, see what you have going on, and add anything she thinks is missing or important. If you are as forgetful as me this can be VERY helpful and keep your busy wife more sane (she doesn't have to worry as much that you are forgetting something important). It is also a good place to keep important numbers and things like the shopping list.