11 Aug 2012, 11:33 am
Hi everyone,
I am Reesie, I'm 16 years old I have Aspergers. I am undiagnosed, however after doing research, I am fairly certain I have this condition. I have been diagnosed with OCD and GAD previously. My parents also see autistic behavior in me, however they believe that being diagnosed with Aspergers will negatively affect my chances of getting into college and make life harder for me. Anyways, Here's a little about myself: I am very interested in music and drugs. No,not illegal drugs but drugs given as medication. I enjoy studying their structures and potential uses which leads me to my next point, I hope to become a pharmacist some day. As I said previously, I also like playing music and I play several instruments. I am a rather quiet and reserved person, and I hate loud situations. I work as a busser in a restaurant and I absolutely HATE my job because of the loud environment and having to be around and work with other people for long periods of time. But it's money. I'm going to be a senior in high school once school starts in a few weeks (Yes I'm only 16, I skipped a grade). I only have a few close friends due to my shyness in real life however I'd like to make some online friends through this forum.
Well I apologize for that giant wall of text right there. 
If you want to know me more PM me. 
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11 Aug 2012, 11:38 am
Welcome to Wrong Planet, Reesie.
I'm 16 as well, but I'm going to be a Junior. I think it's pretty cool that you skipped a grade. I don't think I could make it. 
Don't worry about posting a large wall of text, there are HUGE ones on here. 
PM me if you need someone to talk to.
11 Aug 2012, 3:32 pm
I'm 16 as well, but I'm going to be a Junior. I think it's pretty cool that you skipped a grade. I don't think I could make it.
Don't worry about posting a large wall of text, there are HUGE ones on here.
PM me if you need someone to talk to.
Thanks Makayla!
11 Aug 2012, 4:29 pm
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11 Aug 2012, 6:32 pm
12 Aug 2012, 12:07 am
I am new here, too. Hm - I would be inclined to call the disability department at your chosen post secondary institution to get their point of view on the value and/or drawbacks of a diagnosis. I am a 'mature student', but where I go to school it is a very positive experience - one that helps many people through their education - by having a diagnosis where they can actually offer you appropriate support (they need documentation to do so). For example, you may be able to write exams in a quiet room with some extra time. They will tailor support appropriately to your needs. Depending on where you live, you may be a candidate for scholarships, grants, and/or a 'disability' credit - pardon my use of 'disability' - I think the term would be more correct as 'different-ability'. I encourage you to do a little research and then you may be able to have your parents sit down with a coordinator and receive support for a diagnosis. If all else fails, when you are the age of majority, you will have your own say in the matter. I do understand your parent's fear and desire to protect you, but it should be done with full information and consideration - an educated decision. I am middle-aged going through the diagnostic process and am attending university. For me, it is almost a matter of 'closure' - which is not an end, but a new beginning. For you - our medical knowledge, etc. has changed since I was your age - this will make a difference for you. I am sure you will find some peers who can guide you and support you - and so important, in my mind, understand you. You sound like an amazing person. Best wishes. LM
Wow, that is very useful information. Thank you
I talked to my mom about this and let her know all of this. She said that she's not sure if AS is considered a "mental disorder" and that she's heard somewhere that pharmacists cannot obtain a license if they have a mental disorder. But I will research further into that. I think another large part of the reason she is so worried is that my brother has a physical disability (cerebral palsy) and his whole life he's been denied things because of it. Either way though, as you said, closure is mostly what I'm looking for with a diagnosis and to be finally understood why I am.. well the way I am. Also, the separation during exams may be extremely useful even now, as I scored way above average on my ACT in everything except reading comprehension because I couldn't concentrate in a room full of people. (again, being understood would be very helpful there
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Thank you for your advice and everything, and good luck to you as you attend university!!
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