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My name is Patchman123 and I have had Asperger's since I was born- I am from a small town called Corry, Pennsylvania, just south of Erie. I speak Russian, German, Serbo-Croatian, English, Polish, and Ukrainian. Out of those, I only speak English fluently. The rest I am learning and having problems piecing together sentences in Russian and many curveballs being thrown at me. I have many friends over in Russia, but they do not seem to really understand me at all. I have lost many friends from over in Russia and the attempts to win a girl have all but failed over the last 5 years and have proven utterly futile. Ending in disaster and heartbreak every time. I thought about why my life is worthless. It is a hate crime to them to get their language wrong and mess up their grammar, every friend I have has deserted me because I speak badly and they treat it like it's a national insult a sacrilege if you mess it up. (without mail order brides because I do not subscribe to those scams, nor want to get one of those "girls") These Russians really make me angry! Every attempt has been a miserable failure. Bosnia and Herzegovina a girl from over there in the Balkans ended in failure, Serbian or Muslim, doesn't really matter. The rest, all I can do is maybe with those languages is order a pizza MAYBE at best. It is a hate crime to them to speak really bad Russian. They kill you over it.

Well anyway, my scatter-brain knowledge of Russian and several Slavic languages does and doesn't help at the same time. It helps, to understand WRITTEN no spoken. Oh my God, the spoken Russian is a nightmare! It's a nightmare when you have a disability like I do, then it's just suicide. Finding friends in Russia is suicide for me! No pun intended with Russian roulette. Any of you from Russia and can't deal with social quirks? The foreigners and their ways and the whole Russians and their intolerance of behavior of people with quirks like myself for example and how they can be open-minded and so disgustingly close-minded the Russians! All friendships end in failure with people from Russia! ALL OF THEM! All because I can't speak their stupid language right and how they ridicule people that don't get it right and how Russians are so hostile and close-minded! This IS NOT a dating site, yes I know, but I cannot find a soul from over there that has my disability to REALLY understand me! I have thought, I hate to say this, AT TIMES, thought of desperate measures that I won't discuss here.

So, thank you! I hope to make new friends here. Hope you find me not a bad person! Thank you!
Enjoy!

Why not make friends in the US?

Welcome to Wrong Planet!

What do you mean by that? I tried making friends in the US with Russians and others and nothing but total misery for me day after day. Google translator messes us up the whole phrase to be translated and then there is a horrible mistranslation by a machine translator and then something happens and then she is all gone and I try to communicate with a

It's a recipe for disaster, my disability and my conversation with a foreign person in a language that I barely understand, is a recipe for disaster! It is a failure every time! I have thought about my life of total misery, every time I talk Google translator messes it up and miscommunications happen that I cannot fix because I barely speak the language and there is nobody right there to help me. No one!

I still love froeign languages, though. Talking to foreign people always makes me feel better in my small Pennsylvania town in the middle of nowhere, that is a rusted-out piece of crap, stagnant, failed ghost town in the middle of Erie County. Talk to foreign girls in the USA and the result is failure is every time.

My disability is responsible for so many lost friendships and misery relating to me being called a "creep" and a "maniac" because my reactions aren't what the person on the other end wants them to be. I was cursed with this since birth. It is a curse that is incurable, that is afflicted on me that can NEVER be lifted.

I live in fear of people like the idiots like that jerk on BoardGameGeek that insults my disability, in fear of people like Kristina Svechinskaya on a daily basis. I have the misfortune of being 1 day earlier than her. She rejected me the vain little witch Kristina Svechinskaya, wrapped up in her vain and shallow lifestyle where I am too much bombarding her with many messages, which alienated her. Kristina Svechinskaya, I live in fear of her on the internet, after she rejected me and the fear that she will retaliate with something really bad all because she is angry with all the messages bombarding her. She won't help me deal with Harris Game Design idiots that ridiculed the suffix at the end of her name for several months and made it a regular point of his to make my life miserable over it. All it ends. All just because I made a suggestion to include it in some stupid little board game! He thought the idea was the stupidest he ever heard and he made it a point to constantly torment me over translations being "flase" or whatever excuse he could make to me and made a point that HE did not like me at all and decided to make my life miserable over it. This user named Imperious leader on Harris Game Design.

Nothing on the internet is the same, Even friends, I have had for years in Russia are all gone! I am helpless and my parents are unsupportive of my problems. My dad is absolutely unsupportive and even hostile towards me when I have these problems. I am a freak and they do not like me at all. Kristina Svechinskaya is one threat that I have to worry about.

My little quirks where I am a fish out of water and unable to say to this girl the appropriate phrases to be able to fluidly say it and the rapid speed of IM conversations. My life is nothing but heartbreak. One gone after another. One Russian after another, all Russian females, all gone! All gone and disappeared within a matter for years! Even some I've known for years totally ignore me, like Katerina Puzakova for example.

I am helpless and alone on the internet, even though I live with my parents. If only there could be a person with my Asperger's disability that was fluent in Russian that could help me whenever possible. If only someone could help me. Ridiculed about my disability for years by a Russian girl named Daria Perekidaylova for example and everything else by her, that is not appropriate to mention here. Daria from Tolyatti, the stupid little factory town south of Moscow.

Am I allowed to use real names, here?

It's too bad there's no one from the former Yugoslavia, preferably female with the same disability that I have. No one with Asperger's that speaks Serbo-Croatian! Ni Bosna, Ni Hrvatska, ni Srbija, ni Makedonija, ni Slovenija, DO YOU understand where I'm coming from?


No one out there at all, in this wide world of ours! No one, the community of people that simply communicate with me. The sicknening heartbreak that I feel on a daily basis. No real friends with the same disability that I have from Russia or Poland or Bosnia or anywhere in the former Yugoslavia.

Even foreigners in America, I have trouble with. These foreigners I talk to that live in Erie, like Yuliya for example are gone within a year. She plays a spiteful trick on me where she'll block me on Facebook one day, then the next block me again, just to gain a rise out of it to play some sick and spiteful game with me day after day. This happens to me a lot. Some creepy idiot from Board Game Geek stalks and torments me constantly. He is from Spokane, WA.

I am looking for people in Quebec to talk to as well. Anyone here that speaks French? I am looking for a person from Quebec to talk to over there. Quebec, I can drive up there. I'd rather see this person in Tampa, down South in Florida that I know, where Florida is warmer than here in snowy and cold Pennsylvania, where I live. But Quebec will have to do. Quebec is over in Canada, where I can drive to a foreign country (though TO ME Canada IS NOT a foreign country, it's an extension of our own and Great Britain, where they speak English (and French) and they are a mixture of American and British and European at the same time. Quebec is closer than Florida to me. I live in Corry, Pennsylvania you know.

I am stuck here in the rusted-out crappy factory town stagnant piece of crap that has no real future in this job. The only REAL jobs in town are service industry jobs. Low wage piece of crap jobs no one really wants, that pay peanuts to work.

One failure after another on the internet after five years since 2007, all other friendships failed, including the one with Daria, that failed badly and the police threatened to seize my computer because of a foreign girl in Russia whose laws DO NOT apply here in AMERICA AT ALL and who is NOT a citizen and I am being arrested by a citizen of a foreign country who does not answer to American laws nor adhere to them and from a sovereign country, and NO protection of American sovereignty, to be threatened with being arrested because of a foreign non-American citizen, who lives over in Russia!

IF only you guys knew how bad it TRULY is for me. Is there anyone out there that understands? I do not think so, I am unique among human problems and the feeling of having my heart broken on a daily basis, with one friend gone after another for the last several months and getting worse! It just never ends! Kristina Svechinskaya is just one problem.

She hates me to death! I am a stupid dumb fool to her! I have the misfortune of being several hours apart from her in Corry, Pennsylvania. She was 9 time zones away from me when she was born in Russia, seperated and older than her by one day and a few hours. That is a misfortune! All my misfortune on the internet when one friend after another from Bosnia, Russia, Poland, and other Eastern European countries is gone, and this all happens to me alot over the last several years. Sometimes, I've lost several in the space of 4 weeks. 4 friends or more in as many weeks. The life expentancy is so short. Life is so grim and sad for me and this disability is a curse that is incurable and an obstacle that ruins everything! I cannot get a girlfriend or get married! I have problems with communicating with people in languages I barely understand and barely speak, but do a fairly good job speaking, but cannot seem to mentally find the right words to use because the dictionaries are barely helpful, there is NOT A SINGLE PERSON in my entire town that can help me speak Serbo-Croatian, except myself. Serbo-Croatian and Bosnian are the SAME LANGUAGE, just that the latter uses strange Turkish phrases to "seperate" it from Serbian and Croatian and how they identify with Turkey.

You aren't gonna like my views on the Turks! They stole my Daria and I've been mad at them for years because of it. I've always despised THEM for stealing the Russian girls that I'VE always wanted to date and always screwing these useless girls like some kind of cheap girl on a street corner somewhere. Turkish swine! Call me all the names that you want to, like bigot or whatever, but THEY are not good people. The Turks.

I so caught up in the vicious whirlwind and there's no way out for me. The Turks always get the girl. What they do to Russian girls is abominable. Their culture does not respect women at all. The Turkish culture has NO respect for women at all, as do all the Near Eastern cultures. Their religion is why.

Another useless rant. Well that's my life for you!




YES; I know that THIS IS NOT a "personals" website!

If only you guys knew how sad my life truly is.

I guess what I meant was, why not make friends who speak English as a native language?

How do I do that? I was more thinking of people that spoke Russian and Serbo-Croat, Polish, etc, but okay. With English as a native language.

Where do I find these friends?

Maybe around here?

Really, I have no idea how to find friends outside of here. Sorry.

Oh where is "here?" Are you trolling me?

I'm not trolling you. I meant on this website, Wrong Planet.

My only friend is my cousin-in-law.

OK, why not people who speak English who aren't from Slavic countries? What's the intense attraction?

Unless you have a real need to learn a Slavic language (i.e. you plan to live there), why bother? The whole premise of this thread just doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me, sorry.

Welkome to WP

Mick