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Deinonychus
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Joined: 9 Jun 2013
Age: 59
Gender: Male
Posts: 314
Location: Suffolk, United Kingdom
What is your first name? Martin
Age: 48, soon to be 49
Location: East Anglia, UK
Religion: Atheist. I think about god or gods in the same way as I do about Santa Clause, the Tooth Fairy and the so-called "Flying Spaghetti Monster": while theoretically they could exist, in the absence of any objective and rational evidence for them, the only reasonable conclusion is that they almost certainly do not.
Politics: Right-of-center. For me, UKIP were the best of a bad lot; I say "were", because if they want to keep my vote they will have to be more proactive in weeding out the extremists; they have failed spectacularly in recent months. What I want is control over our own laws, a criminal justice system that prefers victims over criminals and in general our National Sovereignty back from the EU. Is there anybody I can safely vote for other than the Raving Loonies?
Hobbies and Interests: Astronomy, cosmology, mathematics, computer science, electrical engineering, the cat fancy, walking (both for health and for scenery).
Why are you here? To find a partner: the AS female singles pool in my segment of RL is very small. To share experiences: both for carthartic reasons and, hopefully, to help others like myself.
When were you diagnosed? A few years ago. First by a GP while experiencing depression and stress, confirmed by a psychiatrist a year or so later. Where I live, the NHS did not at the time fund diagnosis for adults; I have thus not been able to take the usual battery of psychometric tests; however, looking back at my history and considering my emotional and psychological state prior to recovery, it all makes sense and it is pretty clear that I have AS.
Favorite subjects: Astronomy, cosmology and computer science.
Year/Grade: BSc (2/i) in Computer Systems in the late 1980s; MSc in microelectronics in the early 1990s.
Do you keep pets? A ginger cat. A BIG ginger cat. I am keeping him on a diet, as he would eat all day if he could
Favorite music: Heavy Rock (e.g., Hawkwind and Raven); Heavy Metal (e.g., Agent Steel and Overkill); Baroque (e.g., Bach and Handel).
Books: My life is in such flux and I am so busy that I barely have time to read. Previously, and I hope subsequently: Science-Fiction (e.g., Jack of Shadows, an interesting fusion of SF and Fantasy); "sword and sandals" Fantasy (e.g., The Knight & Knave of Swords); Non-fiction, the more eclectic the better, (e.g. Medieval Russian Laws, Irrationality - The Enemy Within, Honourable Cat (poetry); and, though not strictly a book, Wikipedia's articles on mathematical philosophy, astronomy and cosmology).
TV shows/movies: TV: Stargate SG-1, Star Trek Enterprise, The Sky at Night, Great British/European Train Journeys, The Code (and anything else by Professor du Sautoy), Horizon (anything involving Cosmology or Physics), What We Still Don't Know (a bit old, but groundbreaking for its time, great stuff from Professor Sir Martin Rees) and for pure entertainment: Midsomer Murders. Boxed DVD sets: The History Channel: Egypt, Barbarians, Engineering an Empire and my favourite, Clash of the Gods). I have also watched my way through most Agatha Christie detective series, Morse, Lewis, New Tricks and Endeavour. Movies: Dredd 2D (2012), The Punisher (2004).
Instrument: Piano - I can play a little by ear. As a child, I could read music up to a point.
Do you like sports? To watch: Football, Cricket. To play: no.
Family: I have been single nearly all my life and have no children. I am on good terms with most of my birth family and we all keep in touch, primarily with Facebook.
Clothing: I prefer soft, comfortable clothes coloured black, dark blue or deep red.
How did you find this website? I can't remember, it was all too long ago
Job: Unemployed and receiving Jobseekers Allowance. I am getting very good support for my disability from the local Jobcentre Plus and Mencap; sadly, others aren't so lucky. I am seeking administration and reception roles. The latter might seem a strange choice for an Aspie, but my AS related problems have less to do with empathy and more to do with certain aspects of cognition, ones for which I can get training. I am fortunate that my family have helped me with access to a vehicle; a significant minority of job advertisements in my area state that own transport is required due to a rural location.
How do you get around? I have a full, clean UK driver's licence and a car. I prefer to walk, catch the bus or take the train; however, as stated earlier, East Anglia is very rural; most of my social life and several of the jobs for which I am applying require private transport to reach. I hope also to buy a bicycle at some point; I used to enjoy riding.
Plans for the future? Find a really sweet-natured and truly nice AS woman with whom to share lifelong true love, or as close an approximation (to the ideal of true love) as actually exists; find employment that is satisfyingly challenging; own a home of my own; show cats in competition; speak about autism and astronomy to the general public.
What do you look like? See my entry in the Post a Picture of the Real You. thread.
Any comments? To get a fuller idea about me, just click the find all posts link on my profile; however, here's a brief summary.
* I have always been looking for "others like me" since secondary school but didn't know exactly what that meant. I thought things would change at University, but even at postgraduate level, most of the gang were clever NTs rather than Aspies and was quite surprised that nobody else wanted to sit quietly over tea and discuss philosophy and logic. I did sort of start a mini campaign that year to replace some droll electrical engineering module on our course with "Formal Methods pt 2"; I guess that was a small victory for reason and science
* I did have a job for ten years, but it all went wrong due to the work changing; it was really the wrong job to begin with, but was all I could get, given my then-unknown AS and the depression of the early 1990s.
* I spent all but the last few months receiving ESA, a disability based social security benefit; I took part in various employment rehabilitation programmes; leaned to drive; and got something of a social life. I improved slowly but surely, both in employability and in my personal life; my volunteering in a customer-facing role helped a lot; however, due to lack of effective support I became stuck in a rut.
* Meanwhile, after a couple of years admiring her from a distance and lacking the social skills to romance her, I developed enough to fall in love a year or so ago with a really nice AS woman I knew at the astronomy club. It didn't work out for various reasons, not least her insecurity about her own AS.
* Being otherwise well adjusted and hiding her AS very cleverly, it was a shock to realise just after she had turned me down that yes, she really was in many ways a "female version of me"; I had given up hope that such a person existed, having believed that she was probably just a very eccentric NT. The whole idea seemed too good to be true and, apparently terrified of being "outed" as AS, she had been hiding under my nose all that time.
* The shock and pain of rejection did at least catalyse me into action; a bit like Pearl Harbour bringing the USA into WWII; it awoke the sleeping giant. I just started, out of desperation, to do something about the personal flaws I perceived; it was very slow at first, but I just kept on going where the younger me would have given up. As a result, many life skills and knowledge patterns, the kind NTs take for granted, suddenly made sense all at once; it was as if I had just walked out of an endless bank of fog and into the sunlight.
* After nearly a year, I am almost down to my correct weight, have massively improved life and employability skills, have much better support for job seeking despite my disability; have a much-better personal life; and am getting physically fit again. It was an utterly horrible experience, but it paved the road to recovery. I now want to enjoy the things I have missed out on in life so far; things that NTs take almost for granted.
* Most importantly, I am over the woman I spoke of; she and I were recently able to talk to each other almost normally. I hope that somebody exists out there with whom I can be at least as good or a better match.
* I would like to find that person and it is primarily to that end that I am here on Wrong Planet.
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I'm Martin, born 1965, diagnosed with AS at 43 (Twitter)
I am "single and looking" and can be found at PlentyOfFish if you like what you see here
What is your first name? My nickname is Sibby
Age: Mid 30's
Location: Desert Southwest, United States
Hobbies and Interests: Reading, writing, music, enneagram, mbti, essential oils, fostering/rescuing dogs...
Why are you here? I think I may have asperger and I came here to find out and meet others like me.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): ADD anorexia and visual/spatial disability in high school (with unofficial OCD) sometime later, OCD and trichotillomania.
Favorite subjects: In school? Literature and music.
Year/Grade: I graduated with BA in a liberal arts college in 02'.
Favorite music: Enya, Muse, Jewel (early stuff), Zee Avi, classical/instrumental, celtic music, some country; I like most music except for rap and anything with a loud saxaphone or trumpet because it gives me a headache, sadly.
Books: Tuck Everlasting, The Neverending Story, Lafcadio: The Lion That Shot Back, When Christmas Comes, The Little White Horse, Little Women
TV shows/Movies: Films: Harry Potter (Prisoner of Azkaban is my favorite), The Family Man, The Family Stone, Yes Man, Tin Man, An Ideal Husband, Emma TV Shows: New Girl & Heart of Dixie
Instrument: To play or listen to? I know how to play the piano and I'd like to learn the harp and the flute. I love to listen to classical guitar, the violin, and the harp and flute.
Do you like sports? Not really.
Family: I live with my husband.
Clothing: I like winter clothes; soft, cozy, and warm.
How did you find this website? I believe thee was a link here in an article I was reading about asperger.
Job: Internet research.
Plans for the future? I'd like to write a novel.
Any comments? This was fun, thanks!
What is your first name?
First name is Ryan, nicknamed by some as RC.
Age: 22 chronologically.
Location: Tristate, USA.
Hobbies and Interests:
I would reach the character limit before I covered everything, so I'll do this by media type/genre:
Comics, anime/manga/whatnot, Western media(i.e. DC comics cartoons as a popular example, like Batman Beyond), video games/VG culture, entering tournaments involving
said games, the list goes on.
Why are you here?
Well, I'm here to see the perspective of others with my condition; I haven't really talked with anyone that ISN'T neurotypical, oddly(done pretty well so far, too).
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
With Asperger's, around when I was 4 or 5, not 100% certain.
Favorite subjects:
A few overarching fields,, to cover massive areas;
History, Science, Technology/Engineering, Biology, Psychology, Literature, and more that don't immediately spring to my mind.
Year/Grade:
Graduated HS in '09.
Favorite music:
Epic Rap Battles(does that count?), AC/DC, Eminem, Fort Minor, Black Sabbath, and more I can't remember without looking back.
Books:
I'll stick with recently-read ones/plan to read shortly: Atomic Robo, The Dark Knight Returns(highly-influential Batman comic), Ranks of Bronze, Excalibur Alternative, Transformers: Hearts of Steel, All Hail Megatron, Last Stand of the Wreckers,
TV shows/Movies:
Pacific Rim, The entire Gundam franchise, How to Train Your Dragon, the DCAU and every show in it, the Marvel Movieverse, Red Dwarf, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann, the Transformers franchise overall(even at it's low points), uhhh, and lot more I won't list here due to post length concerns.
Instrument:
I have no selective preference for any one instrument; as for playing one, I used to play the viola(basically a larger version of a violin), and I can sing pretty well.
Do you like sports?
Some, yes, football, and many other contact sports appeal to me the most
How did you find this website?
It might sound odd, but through TVTropes.
Job:
Not yet, but shortly.
What is your first name? Hannah
Age: 13
Location: Ontario
Hobbies and Interests: Horses, Horseback riding, birds, skating. At home, I love to knit or crochet
Why are you here? To learn more about aspergers
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): ADHD in 2008(?) and In the process of re-diagnoses (aspergers) currently
Favorite subjects: language, art, sometimes math
Year/Grade: 8
Favorite music: I like Brony music (black griff0n and baasik, Foozogz). I listen to country music too.
Books: Fact books like Ripley's, Uncle johns bathroom readers for kids, ect...
TV shows/Movies: MLP:FiM, how it's made, Daily planet, mythbusters
Instrument: used to play bass clarinet
Do you like sports? Only ones that don't involve running . I play ringette, Horseback ride and I used to play hockey, but didn't enjoy it as much. For fun, I like to swim and ski.
Family: I live with my older sister and my parents, all NT (but i think my dad has ADD)
Clothing: Stretchy skinny jeans and a comfy t-shirt with a sweater
How did you find this website? researching Aspergers
Job: I want to be a wildlife biologist, and really want to be a voice actress
Plans for the future? I would like to go to Guelph University
Any comments? /) brohoof!
What is your first name? Julia. I don't think my name suits me.
Age: 17
Location: West coast of BC Canada
Hobbies and Interests: Music, psychology, optics, Nordic culture, art and the paranormal.
Why are you here? To burn time and discuss stuff.
When were you diagnosed? I was diagnosed with autism when I was four. I obviously had something, but no one could agree on a diagnosis. My mom kept the autism diagnosis because of services and funding. Right now I'm questioning how accurate my diagnosis is. I did have a lot of problems picking up social cues as a child, but it seemed to be more attention related. Once I trained myself to pay attention to social cues I got better way faster. A lot of the socially inappropriate things I did were caused by impulse control problems. I think ADHD fits me better than autism.
Favorite subjects: Art, computers and math.
Year/Grade: 12
Favorite music: Some indie rock, electronic music and Nordic folk music.
Books: Books that I can relate to, psychology and some fantasy. I need to get back into reading. I don't really know what I like.
TV shows/Movies: Independent and foreign films, trashy talk shows, and documentaries.
Instrument: Piano and accordion.
Do you like sports? I hate most sports, but I enjoyed gymnastics as a kid.
Family: Mom, dad, stepmom, stepdad and younger sister.
Clothing: Vintage clothing, don't care that much about comfort, bright colors and black, I also love polka dots.
How did you find this website? Google
Job: None right now. I'm only 17.
Plans for the future? Work at an optical lab and get a career in music if it's possible. I also want to fall in love. I'm also trying to detox so my brain can work more normally.
Any comments? I don't think any diagnosis actually fits me. I think I'm just a unique person with a unique brain.
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 82 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 124 of 200
You are very likely neurotypical
What is your first name?
Christopher
Age:
28
Location:
Saratoga Springs New York
Hobbies and Interests:
Making Costumes, Weight Lifting, Zumba, Research, Psychology, Cooking, Writing Jokes, Tarot Cards, Anime, Video Games, Foreign Language, Reading.
Why are you here?
I’m at the end of my rope. My racing thoughts have gotten to the point where negative thoughts of suicide, hopelessness , helplessness are autonomic. I live everyday in fear. Fear from authority figures , strangers , people in general. My coping skills aren’t helping me anymore. My perception is incredibly warped , but I keep looking for evidence. People are also scared of me. I learned how to survive in social settings because I received my BA in psychology as well as my own research. Plus I know how to play the part of the “normal person” and it’s been making me sick. If I were to be myself around the people that I have to surround myself with, they would be scared , even though I haven’t done anything, label me, etc .Despite all of that, my life is actually great, but my inner critique keeps telling me I’m nothing and to strive for perfection.
I’m here because I need help realigning my perception. Since Aspergers hasn’t been in the DSM for too long, books, research, specialist..they’ll all scarce. SO I can’t put my nose in a book to solve this problem.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
Three of my social workers at my graduate school spent 6 weeks with me, and these were people who have been working with Autistic kids and people with Aspergers
Favorite subjects:
Psychology, Japanese, Nutrition , Biology, Chinese,
Year/Grade:
Graduate Student
Favorite music:
Heavy Metal, Parody, J-Pop, classic rock.
Books:
Anything Non-Fiction
TV shows/Movies:
Anime, Doctor who, Archer, Invader Zim, The Boondocks, Arrow, Supernatural . Too many to put down.
Instrument:
Guitar
Do you like sports?
Boxing, Weight Lifting
Family:
1 Brother , Mother, father.
Clothing:
I love hoodies and Geek Shirts
How did you find this website?
Another Asperger Friendly website
Job:
Fitness Coach, Zumba Instructor, Seamster, Ordained Minister
Plans for the future?
Get my Masters in applied nutrition. Get involved with pharmaceutical sales
Any comments?
I’ve been fighting this for 25 years, since I threw my first fit. I;ve never asked for help, but I’m realizing that I need it.
Thefan630
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Joined: 24 Feb 2014
Age: 26
Gender: Male
Posts: 10
Location: Murten, FR, Switzerland
What is your first name? Henrique (Henry for short)
Age: 15 (2 weeks before 16)
Location: Bern, BE, Switzerland
Hobbies and Interests: Piano playing (since 5 years), messing up with my pc, literally. I like anime, manga, gaming, music, firearms and politics
Why are you here? To make friends and to be in the right circle of people with Autism
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome 5 years ago
Favorite subjects: Maths, Physics, History and Music
Year/Grade: GU9
Favorite music: Anything on the piano, Electrohouse
Books: If I readed any...
TV shows/Movies: Mayday - Alarm in cockpit
Instrument: Piano
Do you like sports? Yes, swimming and soccer, but my body isn't the best one
Family: Live with parents and younger brother
Clothing: Simple! Either trainers or boots, jeans, and a T-shirt with a jacket
How did you find this website? Google
Job: Does Student count?
Plans for the future? That's complicated, but sort of yeah
Any comments? I'm aware and sure that I want to share personal information here, please don't bug me about it. Otherwise, I like this site
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Thefan630
What is your first name? Michael
Age: 28
Location: Canada
Hobbies and Interests: cars, computers, airline crashes, Doctor Who
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): 2013
Favorite subjects: History, Business
Year/Grade: None
Favorite music: Almost everything
Books: Stephen King, LoTR
TV shows/Movies: Doctor Who, Air Crash Investigation
Instrument: Piano, never learned to play but would like to. Such a beautiful sounding instrument
Do you like sports? No
Clothing: Comfortable
How did you find this website? Google
Job: Unemployed
Plans for the future? Computer Programming maybe
What is your first name? Joleen
Age: 51
Location: Orlando
Hobbies and Interests: Paper crafts, Travel, People
Why are you here? To learn better relationship skills with BF
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
Favorite subjects: Peaple, travel, skin care, holistic life style
Year/Grade:
Favorite music: I love all music
Books: Legal/mystery
TV shows/Movies: House of Cards, CBS Sunday morning
Instrument:
Do you like sports? Not particularly
Family: 2 grown daughters, 2 grandchildren
Clothing:
How did you find this website? Google
Job: Esthetician
Plans for the future?
Any comments? I am excited to read as many threads on this site as the more I read, the more I want to know. I am interested in any/all advice/testimonies
What is your first name? Keli
Age: 18
Location: Greece
Hobbies and Interests: Internet!
Why are you here? Would like to talk to others who aren't NTs
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): HFA - 15, BPD - 16, there's been some discussion over Bipolar (definitely not got that - ex fiance had it) before being diagnosed with Borderline. The same psychiatrist at the child mental health services diagnosed me with Schizoaffective because of the music I hear, but then said I had BPD, so I'm not absolutely sure where I stand. My mood swings are really sudden, but I don't really get suicidal very often or anything, I'm generally very level headed.
Favorite subjects: N/A
Year/Grade: What?
Favourite music: I like Ellie Goulding and Marina & The Diamonds. Marina inspired my youngest daughter's name because it was so unusual and pretty, also with the water theme. My first daughter's name is derived from a river.
Books: I generally like sci fi and non fiction, about history, economics and religion.
TV shows/Movies: American Dad and The Simpsons up to series 16.
Instrument: N/A
Do you like sports? I only like watching rugby for the fit blokes, honest!
Family: My two pretty little princesses.
Clothing: I generally wear dresses.
How did you find this website? Put 'autism forum' into Google.
Job: I'm unemployed at the moment, just looking after my children.
Plans for the future? Hopefully go to college and be a good example to my children.
Any comments? No
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My AQ test score is 47.
Your Aspie score: 189 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 21 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie
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What is your first name? Mrs?
Age: 40-ish
Location: East Coast
Hobbies and Interests: theater, reading, travel, animals
Why are you here? I have an aspie kid. I don't consider myself an NT, however.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
Favorite subjects: History, Literature, Drama
Year/Grade:
Favorite music: Queen, Talking Heads, Eurythmics
Books: Lord of the Rings; Outlander; Fortune's Daughter; The Kitchen God's Wife; The Decameron
TV shows/Movies: Shameless, Justified, House
Instrument:
Do you like sports? Not really.
Family: Married, 2 kids
Clothing: Jeans and sweatshirts!
How did you find this website? Internet searching
Job: I have one
Plans for the future? Being an empty-nester
Any comments?
What is your first name? Finni
Age: 24
Location: The Pacific Northwest
Hobbies and Interests: Crocheting, reading, crossword puzzles, technology, Harry Potter, marijuana (strains and whatnot), music
Why are you here? I have NVLD
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): August 2010
Favorite subjects: Writing, English, Computer classes
Year/Grade: I'm in college
Favorite music: New wave, progressive rock
Books: Too long to list although I'm into Debora Geary at the moment
TV shows/Movies: CSI, House Hunters, Ghost Hunters, The Dead Files, The Killing
Instrument: I don't play any
Do you like sports? Nope
Family: Grandmother, brother, father
Clothing: Anything that's stylish but comfortable. I don't like feeling tight in my clothes
How did you find this website? I actually don't remember
Job: College student
Plans for the future? Data technician of some sort, most likely in the health field
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Officially diagnosed with nonverbal learning disability, social anxiety disorder, and dsythymic disorder.
I've been here for some time now, but I never did one of those "Getting to know you, first posts things",. But I saw this and decided to do this.
What is your first name?: Zachary
Age: 17 (until next month )
Location: Baltimore
Hobbies and Interests: The Addams Family, Genealogy, History, Sweeney Todd, writing, (short plays and poetry), learning anything that can be learned.
Why are you here?: Where else can I go?
When were you diagnosed?: Middle School
Favorite subjects: theater
Year/Grade: Senior
Favorite music: I'm all around the place
Books: Gregory Maguire books, Dan Browns Inferno, Elizabeth Kostovas The Historian
TV shows/Movies: Sweeney Todd, Bones, Hogans Heroes, The Carol Burnett Show, The Two Ronnies
Instrument: Clarinet, Guitar, novice Piano
Do you like sports?: Nope. Well, I like badminton, archery, fencing, and swimming
Family: I say that family is the most important thing in the world. I love my family more than anything
Clothing: I like wearing black. It's such a cheerful color.
How did you find this website?: Don't recall. It was a while ago
Job: None
Plans for the future?: Something where I can put my mind to use, also a minister
What is your first name? Mischa
Age: 39
Location: Oklahoma
Hobbies and Interests: crochet, web design, reading, Celtic and Hindu studies
Why are you here? To learn more about AS and hopefully find some others like me
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Not officially diagnosed, but sure I am AS, my PCP agrees and agrees that in my area, a diagnosis will be difficult to come by, so we are proceeding as if diagnosed
Favorite subjects: history, art, music
Year/Grade: enough college credits for a PhD and not a certificate to my name
Favorite music: pretty much anything is fair game
Books: fantasy/sci fi, history
TV shows/Movies: Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, historical
Instrument: acoustic guitar, cello
Do you like sports? I watch football, hockey and gymnastics, but I don't play
Family: Polyamorous, two husbands, one wife, 4 daughters, 2 stepsons, 1 stepdaughter, three furbabies
Clothing: comfortable and colorful
How did you find this website? mentioned in a blog I read
Job: mom, homeschooler, owner of a crochet business
Plans for the future? right now, learning about AS and answering questions about myself...later, we'll see what happens
Any comments? I'm looking forward to getting to know some folks and seeing how I fit into the world after 39 years
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BAPQ: Autistic/ BAP 126 aloof, 102 rigid, 99 pragmatic
RAADS-R: total 170, language 7, social relatedness 80, sensory/motor 49, circumscribed interests 34
AQ test: 38 EQ: 13 SQ: 64 FQ: 36
170/200 AS 55/200 NT
What is your first name? Paul
Age: 31
Location: Rotherham, England
Hobbies and Interests: Association Football, Ale, Brewing, Music, Birding, Psychedelia/shamanism
Why are you here? I am bored, i only have two friends in the world and as much as i love them we don't share a great deal in common. I want to make friendships with like minded people, vent my frustrations, voice my opinions.
When were you diagnosed? December 2008
Favorite subjects: Ale, Drugs, The human mind, Music. Beyond the human mind, the natural world
Year/Grade: Sorry. I'm English (i messed up in school)
Favorite music: Although i have a very wide taste in music i'll have to say Dark progressive avent-garde music is my favourite. Bnads like Univers Zero or composers like Krzysztof Penderecki do it for me.
Books: Factual only, i have tried fiction again and again buy only every enjoyed Douglas Adams. I read from philosophy, psychology, economics, biographies, sub cultures, music etc...
TV shows/Movies: I don't do films at all, I do watch the football league show, University Challenge, Stewart Lee's Comedy Vehicle and inside Number 9. Anything else on TV right now i can give or take.
Instrument: I play bass but right now only own a childs 3/4 size guitar but i still love to play around on it. I would love top be in a band again
Do you like sports? I support my home town teams in Football and Rugby union who are in the 3rd and 2nd divisions of there sport respectively. Not very glamorous but both having very successful seasons this year. As for sport myself, i have just started cross training running and cycling, don't know how long i'll last though.
Family: All 4 grandparents still alive, Mother and two sisters. My elder sisters family has recently moved back up north so her and her husband are part of my support group again. Father dies suddenly 2 years ago from a stroke. Had a natural woodland burial close to home, i hope to buy a plot close fopr when i go.
Clothing: Jeans, polos, shirts and overcoats. Nothing snazzy buy always smart and dark.
How did you find this website? Honestly can't remember
Job: Unemployed benefit claimant.
Plans for the future? Yes (i think)
Any comments? Thanks for reading.
Name: Vee
Age: 50ish
Location: Pacific North West
Hobbies and Interests: re-purposing things into crafts and art, gardening, aquariums
Why are you here? I need to learn to safely socialize. I've been used and abused one too many times.
Favorite music: Blues, R&B, Hip-Hop, Hard Rock, Pop
Books: Horror, Thrillers, Arthurian, Historical fiction
TV shows/Movies: Horror, Thrillers, Drama, Comedy
Do you like sports? no
How did you find this website? google
Job: I'm unemployed