Questions about you
What is your first name? Jukka
Age: 37
Location: Finland
Hobbies and Interests: Reading, Cycling
Why are you here? Suspecting AS.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): I dont have diagnose. My wife wants me to get it (or atleast get tested), but I have no use for it.
Favorite subjects: History and chemistry.
Year/Grade: Half life since ive been into school
Favorite music: Everything thats good (IMO), mostly finnish rock.
Books: Mostly crime and war books, fact or fiction. +special mention: Donna Tartt: The secret history.
TV shows/Movies: Anything with Bruce Willis.
Instrument: Ive been playing guitar and bass more or less for about 20years and i SUCK in it.
Do you like sports? Icehockey, football.
Family:
Clothing: Jeans mostly. When in home, i wear as less and as comfort clothes as i dare.
How did you find this website? Googling for Asperger.
Job: Factory
Plans for the future? To start living instead of just staying alive. Just dont know where to begin.
Any comments? Sorry for the misspelling. <--Was that spelled correctly? Also if my nick bothers someone, i can change it Gordons Dry
What is your first name? Shane
Age: 42
Location: Fredericksburg, Va
Hobbies and Interests: Music, internet, drawing, art
Why are you here? Aspergers
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): about 8 months ago
Favorite subjects: sociology and psychology
Year/Grade: bachelor's degree
Favorite music: Grateful Dead
Books: Lord of the Rings
TV shows/Movies: The Mighty Boosh, IT Crowd, Frasier
Instrument: Guitar, DJ turntables
Do you like sports? not really
Family -
Clothing: Cotton and casual, tshirts
How did you find this website? Heard about it from a friend
Job: not currently working
Plans for the future? Thinking about maybe putting together a book someday. Working towards becoming a peer counselor and mentor.
Any comments -
What is your first name? It starts with M.
Age: 30+
Location: Northern Europe. English is not my first language.
Hobbies and Interests: Visual arts, cats, books, neurology, psychology, natural sciences, languages and cultures. I love volunteering, creative writing and painting, but mostly I just spend time surfing the internet.
Why are you here? I just felt I needed a place to discuss these topics and meet people with perhaps similar issues as me.
When were you diagnosed? I haven't been diagnosed so far. I'm quite sure I'm on the spectrum, though. My brother has Asperger's, and his problems have always been similar to mine. When I was young, I was diagnosed with recurrent depression and a personality disorder with avoidant and borderline traits.
Favorite subjects: Psychology, biology, religions and arts
Year/Grade: I'm currently back in college, trying to get a bachelor's degree in social sciences. I assume I have about 1,5 years left before graduating.
Favorite music: Almost everything except heavy metal. I've always secretly loved opera.
Books: I like books written by Tess Gerritsen, Robin Cook, Douglas Adams and Dan Brown. Also used to love Torey Hayden, when I was younger.
TV shows/Movies: TV series Orange is the new black, Lost, The 4400, a danish/Swedish series called The Bridge, The Walking dead, Land Girls, Call the midwife. Movies The Beautiful Mind and The Piano.
Instrument: I have a guitar and a ukulele, but can't really play them. I used to take piano lessons.
Do you like sports? Not really. Swimming and playing badminton are quite fun, though.
Family: Just my girlfriend and our little kittycat. My childhood family consists of my mom, a sister and a brother, but my mom has cut contact with me, so I see them very rarely.
Clothing: Jeans and T-shirts. I think men's clothes often look nicer and feel more comfortable than women's, but I don't have the guts to buy them, as I'm a woman.
How did you find this website? Just googling around.
Job: Have only once had a real job. Not working right now.
Plans for the future? Well, maybe not plans but hopes and dreams: to get a better flat and neighborhood, to graduate in time, to get a job (of almost any kind), to buy and repair an old, wooden house, to write a novel and have time for painting and other arts.
What is your first name? Charlote
Age: 27
Location: PR
Hobbies and Interests: Reading, Writing, Math, Drawing, Researching, Music, Computers, Video Games, Cheesecake, etc.
Why are you here? Need for understanding.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Still taking tests but getting a full diagnosis soon, though I have already been told I have it.
Favorite subjects: Math, Chemistry and Art
Year/Grade: N/A (Going back to University in January, hopefully.)
Favorite music: Nothing specific. (Hate very loud music though.)
Books: Read too many but, my favorites are Math related.
TV shows/Movies: Grimm (until I find something new).
Instrument: None
Do you like sports? No
Family: ? (I don't understand what I'm supposed to post here.)
Clothing: Anything comfortable; no bright colors.
How did you find this website? Online search.
Job: Currently unemployed.
Plans for the future? Going back to University and getting a Bachelor's, possibly two.
Any comments? Hoping to make a friend similar to myself.
What is your first name: L....
Age: 24
Location: planet Earth
Hobbies and interests: manga, anime, behavior, nature, drawing
Why are you here: resource, discussion, inspiration
When were you diagnosed: 7 years old, parents knew something wrong around 18 months
Favorite subjects: science, reading, math
Year/grade: senior undergrad, bachelor degree
Favorite music: Enya, Toby Keith, Nickelback, genre--country, galic/irish, pop, rock/alternative; anything but hip hop & rap
Books: Animal Ark, Shakespeare, textbooks, genre--action, adventure, mystery, nature, science, humor
TV shows/movies: Criminal Minds, NCIS LA, Wander or Yonder, America's Funniest Home Videos, genre--same as books plus crime & cartoon
Instrument: piano when I was little, 3 years
Do you like sports: okay with some, otherwise no
Family: live on own, my dog & me, a kitten sometime in nearish future
Clothing: soft, comfortable, casual, functional, simple/colorful designs
How how did you find this website: google
Job: supplemental instructor for freshman program at university
Plans for the future: graduate with bachelors, take 2-3 years to reorient self, masters behavioral science/teaching, career as teacher/lecturer that combines disability, criminality, & behavioral science
What is your first name? Bill
Location: Illinois - USA
Hobbies and Interests: Fantasy Books, Church, Madden Football on the Wii
Why are you here? Meet People, Learn more about Aspergers
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Still Pursuing a formal Diagnosis. Hopefully will get one at my Aust 13th appointment
Favorite subjects: American Football
Year/Grade: I graduated High-School in 1990
Favorite music: Country & Christian Alternative
Books: Just about anything in the Fantasy genre
TV shows/Movies: War moves, Action adventure stuff
Instrument: I played Trumpet in High School. I was actually pretty good and went to several hnor bands and marched in the Cotton bowl Parade
Do you like sports? American Football, Hockey
Family: Married with 3 kids
Clothing: You can usually find me in a pair of shorts and a golf shirt
How did you find this website? My wife found it
Job: Currently unemployed. AGAIN. I have been a nurse for about 3 years now
Plans for the future? Find a job and learn how to keep it
Any comments? Looking forward to making some friends on here
What is your first name? Amy
Age: 21
Location: Somewhere in the universe
Hobbies and Interests: Music, maths, reading, writing, video games (in particular The Sims)
Why are you here? To meet and talk to people on my planet!
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): 4 years old, though parents suspected from about 18 months
Favorite subjects: Music, maths
Year/Grade: 1st year undergrad, bachelor's degree
Favorite music: Anything good
Books: Mostly non-fiction on my interests
TV shows/Movies: Mock The Week, Sherlock, Harry Potter series
Instrument: Piano, guitar, bass, drums (mostly piano and guitar)
Do you like sports? Sometimes
Family: -
Clothing: Boyish. I find them more comfy and easy to wear
How did you find this website? Completely by accident
Job: None
Plans for the future? Get a record deal, getting my degree is merely a 'safety net' while I'm waiting
Any comments? Nice to finally have found somewhere where I fit in!
Last edited by AspiePianoGirl42 on 13 Jul 2014, 2:10 pm, edited 1 time in total.
savethepenguins
Tufted Titmouse
![User avatar](./download/file.php?avatar=50756.jpg)
Joined: 25 May 2011
Age: 32
Gender: Male
Posts: 28
Location: Pennsylvania, USA
What is your first name?
Age: 21
Location: Pennsylvania, USA
Hobbies and Interests: This stuff should be on my profile, lol. I said music, cats, and nature.
Why are you here? To try to establish connections with people and to discuss something that greatly affects my life. I have trouble making friends IRL, so I find this to be an outlet to engage socially.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): 18
Favorite subjects: History, politics, art
Year/Grade: entering last year of college/university.
Favorite music: punk, 90s indie, post-rock, some relaxing music like dream pop, ambient, and 70s electronic.
Books: I have ADHD issues, so I find it hard to keep my attention on books. I'm attempting to read a Phillip K Dick book right now.
TV shows/Movies: I like Stanley Kubrick films. I have a pretty bad taste in TV though. I thought Forensic Files was a good show but it seems to have been cancelled in 2011
Instrument: I used to play violin, but I don't have much in the way of dexterity.
Do you like sports? Ice Hockey and American Football.
Family: Yes, I have some.
Clothing: I like to wear black, with band Tshirts or something. Idk, clothing isn't too important to me.
How did you find this website? I don't remember. I might have posted in this thread awhile ago. I figured I can try this website again
Job: I work at the local pool. It's quiet and doesn't tap into my sensory processing issues too much.
Plans for the future? I want a job, a cat, and a gf with whom to cuddle every night. I want to see the world and travel.
Any comments? No.
What is your first name? Funny story about that... ARGH! Couldn't make it passed the first question... sigh...
...we'll just go with "Christopher" and move on...
Age: 41 ... ugh...
Location: Phoenix
Hobbies and Interests: Assorted geekery, computer games, board games, pen and paper... good television, movies (good bad or otherwise)... also writing
Why are you here? Where else would I be?
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Varying degrees of awareness throughout my life, tucked away behind... baseball bat to the face realization and diagnosis about 2 minutes after my son was diagnosed.
Favorite subjects: "favorite" makes it sounds like I'm stalking... it is a scientific endeavour... really...
Year/Grade: I'm majoring in too damned old
Favorite music: grunge, quality rap, big band and lounge... and then everything else... except country... and most hip hop...
Books: Cryptonomicon and anything Discworld
TV shows: Anything HBO makes it seems...
Movies: Memento and Finding Nemo are the best ADD movies ever made.
Instrument: For shame! This is an all ages forum.
Do you like sports? Occasionally I like the combat oriented ones, usually just no.
Family: Wife, daughter, and my incredible ASD son
Clothing: Usually.
How did you find this website? I don't even remember, its been too long.
Job: Code Monkey
Plans for the future? Preparing my d00d for the future, preparing the world for him.
Hi, just taking the survey here...
?What is your first name?
LD
?Age:
45
?Location:
Tacoma (I followed a link to a local (for me) Aspie Women's support group, but got the MailerDaemon mssg for the e-mail I sent. Anyone have updated contact info?)
?Hobbies and Interests:
Dragons, Unicorns, and other fantasy animals
Biology, Literature, Drawing & Painting, needlework & cooking
?Why are you here?
I think I might be Aspie, or somewhere on the spectrum
?When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
I'm not--only self diagnosed, and only this summer (2014)
Favorite subjects:
Literature, foreign languages, art & anatomy
Year/Grade:
college graduate, 2012. High School graduate, 1986.
Favorite music:
As long as the words are about Jesus and His Father, Maker of heaven and earth, I like it. The lyrics are the key thing for me.
Books:
Too many to list. But start with the Bible. then go to C.S.Lewis, George MacDonald, J.R.R.Tolkein, and further up and deeper in to every fantasy world ever created by the imagination of man.
TV shows/Movies:
Um, I don't have a TV anymore, but my most recent fave progs were Criminal Minds, House M.D., Cold Case, Without a Trace and the Big Bang Theory. I like Disney Animation--including Fantasia and PIXAR, and Dreamworks. Action/Adventure movies are o.k. as long as they're in a fantasy world instead of another DESTROY NEW YORK/LA movie.
Instrument:
Flute. I dabble on keyboards, guitars, reeds and brass.
?Do you like sports?
Only if there is no ball, and no team. Except Quidditch. Quidditch is ok.
Family:
I live with my 2nd husband and my 5th cat. My daughters visit every other weekend. My sons are grown and gone, and I don't see my grandkids often enough.
Clothing:
Soft and comfortable is preferred! But I have to wear slacks and polo shirts to work.
?How did you find this website?
I forget--I think I was reading Aspie Blogs and once enough of them linked to here I followed a link and lurked a week before joining. Then I lurked an additional week before posting!
Job:
Medical Records Technician in pediatrics.
Plans for the future?
Medical Coding and Transcription in a Hospital. Someday, retiring in the mountains in Western Montana.
?Any comments?
How do I explain to neurotypicals that autism isn't an excuse for behaving "badly" (according to their social conventions), it's a constant struggle to understand why it seems nobody really likes or understands me?
Wait...that's not a comment, is it, it's a question!
Asperger's is like color blindness, only in social skills and reading people's moods. No, a color blind person can't tell red from green just by trying harder. No, I can't figure out why what I did or said (which seemed perfectly reasonable and logical at the time) hurt your feelings or embarrassed you just by trying harder to "put myself in your shoes." No, an Aspie can't figure out what to do/say to make it all better just by thinking about it for a minute or two. It's not a "no-brainer," and it's not a thing any five-year-old could understand. It's a thing that most neurotypical kindergarteners would understand. But I don't get it, and it would ease a lot of frustration if you could find a way to explain it to me instead of blowing up at me!
*thanks for noticing me*
_________________
Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 141 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 71 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)
Official diagnosis: Austism Spectrum Disorder Level One, without learning disability, without speech/language delay; Requiring Support
What is your first name? Caroline
Age: 24
Location: Norway
Hobbies and Interests: Studying, music, bodymoods, art, physics
Why are you here? Maby someone undertsands me here
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): 18
Favorite subjects: Science, anatomi, math, fiction ect.
Year/Grade: Still studying
Favorite music: Metal/rock
Books:
TV shows/Movies: BBT, friends, science fiction
Instrument: Tenor saxophone, piano, guitar
Do you like sports? Some..
Family: I`m a mom
Clothing: Cute and comfy
How did you find this website? Google
Job:
Plans for the future? Working as a Physicist, having a big family
Any comments? Sorry for the bad English...
[b]
What is your first name? Bryan
Age: 16
Location: Small town in VA
Hobbies and Interests: I really like keeping stats in sports, and creating sports situations in my head(Not really into playing much)
Why are you here? Aspergers/ADHD
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Don't recall the exact date but around a year ago, as a followup from a school study.
Favorite subjects: Math, and Writing(even though it isn't a subject)
Year/Grade: Grade 11
Favorite music: Rap, but thats mostly because I try to fit in, in all honesty it's probably emotional music, not just emo, any emotional music, because I am a very emotional person.
Books: I don't dislike reading, I just don't because I don't see the point, because I find most stories thrown together, if that makes sense.
TV shows/Movies: To be honest, I don't have one, I actually have a theory about that... I don't think the majority of people have a favorite movie, they just state a movie they liked.
Instrument: Nothing
Do you like sports? Yes as I previously stated.
Family: Dad, Sister, mom, and step-dad
Clothing: I don't really pay attention to clothes, I mean I wear name brand just because of peer pressure, but in all honesty I see it is a waste of time, shoes are shoes, the comfortability never bothered me, I actually found cheaper shoes to be more comfortable, because you don't have to pay attention to them getting dirty or ruint.
How did you find this website? I am currently struggling adapting to bullies and the new outlook I recieved after I realized what I had.
Job: Bagger at Kroger
Plans for the future? I would love to be a high office position in a sports organization, but I often make plans and dreams, and at the moment, I am trying to save up 10,000 dollars and move down to Charlotte North Carolina, get a job, and then intern for the Bobcats/Panthers.
Any comments? I also suffer from undiagnosed social anxiety
What is your first name? Jim
Age: 22
Location: Ontario, Canada
Hobbies and Interests: Music, video games, watching too much tv, reading
Why are you here? To find an ASD community!
When were you diagnosed? (skip if you don't have a disorder): About a year ago
Favorite subjects: History, classics, art history
Year/Grade: I'm not in school right now, but I'll be in my second/third year (it's complicated) of university when I go back.
Favorite music: Prog rock, heavy metal
Books: Anything by PG Wodehouse
TV shows/Movies: Star Trek, Pacific Rim (I love a lot more but we'll stick to one favourite of each)
Instrument: I really love the piano but if you mean what I play I play the alto sax.
Do you like sports? CURLING
Family: I live with my mom and stepdad; I also have a dad, an older brother, three older stepbrothers, and two older stepsisters.
Clothing: Flannel.
How did you find this website? Looking up resources
Job: Don't have one
Plans for the future? Go back to school. Graduate. Find job. Move out of parents' house.
What is your first name? Caesár
Age: 17
Location: Netherlands
Hobbies and Interests: Film related stuff and cycling.
Why are you here? I randomly found this site and I actually liked it.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): July 2013
Favorite subjects: English, Gym and Graphic design
Year/Grade: I graduated high school this year, I'm going to be in year one of further education college or community college (That's what it's called in English according to wikipedia)
Favorite music: Rap music is one of my favourite types of music but I can listen to anything that sounds catchy.
Music from the Gameboy advance and Super Nintendo entertainment syster are Awesome as well.
My favourite artists are Daft Punk and Childish Gambino.
Books: The Never Ending story, Diary of a Wimpy Kid and Harry Potter was fun to read as well.
TV shows/Movies: Community, Law&Order SVU, Dan Schneider's series, Disney shows, SpongeBob, The Middle, Men at Work and a lot of other sitcoms.
Instrument: Keyboard
Do you like sports? I don't really watch or play sports, but I enjoy cycling while listening to music.
Family: I have a big family, every day I discover a new family member in my Facebook friend suggestions.
Clothing: I never wear brand clothes, I always wear shirts that have creative or funny designs on them.
How did you find this website? I was looking for a YouTube video on Google, I didn't find it though (I am subscribed to the person but she is somewhere in my endless subscription list.
Job: Nothing
Plans for the future? Working in a multi camera sitcom would be cool.
Any comments? This site is really amazing and I'm glad that it exists, I love you guys!
What is your first name?
Age: 17
Location: Finland
Hobbies and Interests: video games, snowboarding, now I also learn skateboarding, music, I also have a dog.
Why are you here? Aspergers
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): when I was 5-6 years old, can't recall correctly.
Favorite subjects: Math, Chemistry
Year/Grade: Final year in high school
Favorite music: alternative rock, grunge, prog rock
Books: lord of the rings, i'm not that much into reading
TV shows/Movies: don't watch that much TV anymore, I don't have a favorite movie either
Instrument: I play clarinet and also tried drums
Do you like sports? I hate team sports because I don't have the coordination but otherwise yes.
Family: currently living with my stepmom but I have 4 sisters who are roughly 10 years older than me, 2 stepbrothers and 1 stepsister, my real parents died when I was young
Clothing: anything that looks nice and fits, i like checkered patterns
How did you find this website? google
Job: no permanent job
Plans for the future? I want to do anything that has math associated with it, preferably science. I also would like to make friends who truly understand me.
Any comments? Nope
What is your first name? Micayla
Age: 31 in a couple days
Location: Northeast Ohio
Hobbies and Interests: Jigsaws, a few strong fictional TV shows, weird facts, Inception
Why are you here? I recently had an awakening due to confidence and realized that I can jump ahead of being "the girl with the problems" because all of those "problems" that made me unnacceptable to people and myself are in fact something that make me special, however at the same time I feel like no one will listen cause I wasn't diagnosed. It isn't just a guess, I have Aspergers, but I feel like once someone has another title they're in that caste for life and no one cares.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Oh, I have a disorder, Aspergers and if not that something almost identical that affects social function, behavior and includes high intelligence. My NVLD diagnoses came at 8 (which wasn't considered to be related to Aspergers in 91, especially not in girls?), then all the irrelevant ones piled in, but I found a few numbers to call and people are saying it's not too late and even insuranceless it's under $300...
Favorite subjetcs: I can rant about almost anything. Some are good rants, some are bad. I'm comfortable in a craft store, bring up one of my shows or Inception and I won't shut up, music as well. I'm a bit...lost now in regards to everything, but I can have an intelligent conversation about almost anything not related to math and science, but what I really want is for people to understand what's going on inside my head, which I can't communicate, so I talk about everything else. It was also a "successful" (no) way to convince therapists that I'm "avoiding things", "fine", "hypomanic" (cause I can't shut up.)
Year/Grade: I went to secretarial school ages ago, tried community college here in the US but I started a shift job and just couldn't work out a routine and self supporting's always been more important than school, besides I'm allergic to math, teachers, classmates...high school never ends and no one understands me.
Favorite music: Phases and phases. Last 7 weeks I can barely go an hour without the Barenaked Ladies, but usually it's a mix of whatever, including but not limited to Foo Fighters, Beatles, Sheryl Crow, REM, Counting Crows and a couple Israeli singers (lived there too long)
Books: Shutter Island (and most Dennis Lehane), Harlan Coben. I can't concentrate on anything not fascinating to me right now, but I used to read EVERYTHING I could get my hands on till I was about 20. I've been having trouble reading lately and I need some new books that can draw me in.
TV shows/Movies: Inception. Inception, Inception, should I repeat? My main show is X-Files, my main current (and recently deceased) shows are Warehouse 13 (RIP), Haven, Homeland, Sherlock, Orphan Black and Doctor Who, but I follow a few more
Instrument: None
Do you like sports? Not in the least.
Family: Two beautiful cats, foremost. The biologicals live in Israel and I just had a disasterous visit with my mom. I rent an attic from a family who took me into their "band of misfits". I have two brothers, my parents are still together.
Clothing: Thank God there's somewhere to talk about this. I'm little. 5"2, 110 or so, easily a small, but I've NEVER been comfortable in clothes my size. Over the years I've gotten better and can usually overdress by only a size or two before feeling like I don't fit in my skin. People said sexual abuse, I argued it till I realized there's no logical explanation I can't be comfortable, so I did what I think a lot of Aspies have to do, justified my "weird" behaviors. I dress like a guy at times (I'm straight), improving only slightly. I'm most comfortable in pajamas.
How did you find this website? Googled Aspergers
Job:Third shift at a gas station. Robotic, autopilot work which is good for me but I hate coworkers and customers and it's terrifyingly hard for me to get new jobs and we're anticipating a manager change. I'm overqualified intellectually, but behaviorally it really is all I can do.
Plans for the future? Figuring out how to balance my life.
Any comments? I'm looking for some great Aspies to talk to. Please talk to me about anything. I'm not bad once you get to know me