Questions about you
What is your first name? Tommy
Age:40
Location: Arkansas, USA
Hobbies and Interests: None, really. I like to think.
Why are you here? To see if there are others like me out there.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Undiagnosed
Favorite subjects: Math, physics, astronomy.
Year/Grade: Currently enrolled in online school.
Favorite music: Rap, metal, pop, easy listening, country, Motown, doo wop, R&B, soul, classic rock
Books: Not much of a reader.
TV shows/Movies: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Star Trek TNG, Jeopardy, WWE
Instrument:
Do you like sports? Watching college football
Family: Married, no children
Clothing: Shorts and T shirts. Don't like too much fabric against my skin.
How did you find this website? Google
Job: Letter Carrier
Plans for the future? Will let you know when I complete my degree.
What is your first name?: Carolyn
Age: 23
Location: UK
Hobbies and Interests: video games, collecting, sculpting & figure customization, music, movies
Why are you here?: To join a community really. Maybe feel a little less isolated.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Age 20! I'm autistic
Favorite subjects: Art!
Year/Grade: None
Favorite music: Lots - rock, metal, pop and some dance stuff
Books: Sabriel (Old kingdom trilogy), Millennium series by Stieg Larsson, Battle Royale, Generally fantasy and crime/mystery stuff.
TV shows/Movies: Lord of the rings, Bourne, Resident evil, Hunger games series, Horror and crime stuff (even though i can't look! )
Instrument: None unfortunately
Do you like sports? Nope
Family: I have parents, an older sister, Opa, Aunt and my sis' boyfriend (who i see as my brother pretty much). I have other family members but i never see them.
Clothing: I like cute stuff but i mostly wear comfortable warm things, like jumpers and such. Or cute and comfortable things if i can. Onesies are awesome.
How did you find this website? My Mum
Job: Unemployed
Plans for the future? Not sure. End goal would be to get better with sculpting and customizing figures. And maybe get back into drawing/painting again.
Any comments?
What is your first name? Legally Marina, decidedly Mirin
Age: 18
Location: U.S.
Hobbies and Interests: Drawing, reading, character developing
Why are you here? To get more information on the autism spectrum, and maybe talk to people?
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
Favorite subjects: English, art
Year/Grade: 12
Favorite music: Indie/pop/rock
Books: The Mortal Instruments, The Lunar Chronicles, The Alchemyst
TV shows/Movies: Doctor Who
Instrument: vocal cords??
Do you like sports? nah
Family: an older sister and two step-brothers, both parents
Clothing: comfortable things, like sweats, t-shirts, jeans
How did you find this website? A Yahoo! Answers page about "How can I tell if I have Asperger's?"
Job: searching
Plans for the future? Bachelor's degree in communications, then become a book editor. Marriage would be cool. As to how I'll achieve any of that... well that's the real question isn't it?
Any comments?
What is your first name?
Age: 27
Location: Illinois
Hobbies and Interests: writing, drawing, computer RTS games, climbing trees, exercising, english tutoring, watching sh***y movies.
Why are you here?: a few more dream job rejections and it just hit me how behind I am with my Peers, I knew I had aspergers for some time, but I never tired to seek help, just thought I could power through... (its like that lyric, "i'd walk with my people if I could find them")
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): In elementary school, but back then, apergers=ret*d, so in spent most of my early years thinking that i was incapable of learning...
Favorite subjects: History, Science, Philosophy, Narrative,
Year/Grade: graduated
Favorite music: Motown and Grunge.
Books: anything by Pratchett, Salvatore, Lovecraft, Heinlein, Asimov, Rowling, Tolkien, Orwell, etc
TV shows/Movies: I only watched TV when I was young... favorite movies is still Jaws, my favorite movie since I was five (my parents had to fire the baby sitter)
Instrument: none
Do you like sports? Martial Arts
Family: My sister and my mother, my father is deceased.
Clothing: whatever fits?
How did you find this website? blind luck, searches...
Job: Retail, but hopefully quitting that to become an electrician apprentice (its better than minimum wage)
Plans for the future?: still trying ti figure that out. I still want to go to japan, but maybe I should wait while and build up more money before doing that...
Any comments?
Ashley
21
Massachusetts
Six Flags, RCT3, Sims 3, video/computer games, harry potter, tv shows, environment, animals, internet, college, photography
looking for friends in my area
When were you diagnosed? April 2014 (3 months before turning 21.)
Favorite subjects: changes
college
Favorite music: changes; mainly Christian, Wizard Rock, and Country, but suggest something an I will probably enjoy it.
Books: Harry Potter (all) wishbone, No flying in the house, some of Twilight, Goosebumps, and a bunch of things i cant remember.
TV shows/Movies: Parenthood, Simpsons, Family Guy, American Dad, 7th Heaven, Switched at Birth, Scooby Doo, Bones, House, Forensic Files, and others.
Instrument: piano
Do you like sports? Soccer & Baseball are ok but im not obsessed and dont watch them unless its in person. i really like Quidditch but we all know it isnt real.
Family: important
How did you find this website? watching "United States of Autism"
Job: looking
Plans for the future? boyfriend, dog, parrot, graduating college. (im majoring in Pre-Vet an Photography)
What is your first name?
Mon nom est Robert
Age:
17
Location:
Texas
Hobbies and Interests:
Listening to music, shopping, writing music and books
Why are you here?
To get to know others
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):
2006
Favorite subjects:
French
Year/Grade:
11
Favorite music:
Madonna, MJ, George Michael, Kylie Minogue, Sia, Taylor Swift, Andrea Bocelli, and Queen
Books:
The Great Gatsby, The Color Purple,and Harry Potter series
TV shows/Movies:
American Horror Story, The Walking Dead, 2 Broke Girls, (I'll watch anything but these are my favorite shows)
Spirited Away, The Color Purple, The Pianist, Frozen, Finding Nemo, and Her
Instrument:
Piano
Do you like sports?
Not really though I do enjoy watching the Super Bowl Halftime Show
Family:
I have here, in Florida, and in Brownsville
Clothing:
Calvin Klein
How did you find this website?
I do personal research
Job:
Unemployed as of now
Plans for the future?
Yes I'm an aspiring music artist, model, author, film writer, and autistic friend of anyone
Any comments?
N/A
What is your first name?Erin
Age:34
Location:Orlando Florida
Hobbies and Interests:i like jigsaw puzzles,bike riding and nature and i love animals
Why are you here?to be socialable and meet cool people
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder):in November 2014 with aspergers
Favorite subjects:not sure
Year/Grade:high school graduate
Favorite music:country,hip-hop, pop,r&b,and some alternative
Books:fiction and some non fiction
TV shows/Movies:cartoons, action, and fantasy
Instrument:played the piano a lil bit when I was younger
Do you like sports?yes love baseball
Family:youngest of three
Clothing:loose and comfy if i could wear sweats all day i would
How did you find this website?my therapist suggested it
Job: assistant manager at universal studios Orlando
Plans for the future? Just to be myself and happy
Any comments? I have a small dog named cuddles and he is the best. He gets me through my day. I cant imagine life without him
What is your first name? Yenna
Age: 17 years old.
Location: Eindhoven, the Netherlands.
Hobbies and Interests: Drawing, playing violin, 3D origami, playing League of Legends.
Why are you here? Because I feel comfortable on a topic with other autistic people.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): In 2007 I've been diagnosed with PDD-NOS, which got verified last year.
Favorite subjects: On this forum? Teenage forum, art & creativity, love & dating and general. If you do not mean on this forum: World War I, violin music, vocaloid and the Spanish Armada.
Year/Grade: I'm in my last year of high school.
Favorite music: Lindsey Stirling, Vocaloid.
Books: None.
TV shows/Movies: Big Hero 6, Tarzan, Are you the one? (MTV), The Valleys (MTV), Viva La Bam (MTV).
Instrument: Violin, Ukulele, Acoustic guitar, Electric guitar, Bass guitar.
Do you like sports? I don't, but I do if archery is considered a sport. I love practising archery a lot.
Family: I have a younger brother (16) and an older sister (24). I should have another sister around the age of 20 (Joëlle) but she passed away right after she was born. That's why my full name is now Yenna Joëlle Maria.
Clothing: I usually wear black jeans with a cute top and a jacket / vest. Nothing special really.
How did you find this website? Interesting.
Job: None.
Plans for the future? I hope to study Economics - Internation Event, Music & Entertainment Studies after I finish high school. I hope to find a guy to share my life with and make a carreer as either an event manager or as an artist (3D origami pieces and artworks sell surprisingly well).
Any comments? None.
VictoryForCake
Hummingbird
Joined: 4 May 2014
Age: 27
Gender: Male
Posts: 20
Location: Somewhere in the USSR (CCCP)
What is your first name? Jerome, Vic, Cake, And a few other obscure ones
Age:18
Location:The Soviet Socialist republic of Ireland (Ireland)
Hobbies and Interests: Soviet stuff, Reading, Movies, Music, The general jist
Why are you here? I was told there was Tea and Jaffa cakes
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Officially 2012, Unofficially 2009
Favorite subjects: Sleeping, What I tend to do in them anyway
Year/Grade: Final last year
Favorite music: Too Narrow a question, Maybe some Zappa
Books: Classics, Dickins, Dostoevsky, Tolkien and Karl Marx
TV shows/Movies: Sopranos, Red Dwarf,
Instrument: Can play Drums and Guitar, Bought a violin need time to learn it, Tried the Triangle but found it confusing
Do you like sports? Yes, Archery
Family: I am the Offspring of a sheep and a cow (Sister, Mother and Father)
Clothing: Generally worn, It is cold here, Jeans shirts and Jackets what else
How did you find this website? Google
Job: Student (leach)
Plans for the future? Might order pizza next week and Go to College or University or and Insititute of Technology ect.
Any comments? I tend to mess around a bit
What is your first name? Joël
Age: 29
Location: The Netherlands
Hobbies and Interests: crafts with yarn and cloth, gardening, reading, 3d origami, nonogram, nature, capoeira
Why are you here? because this is one of the few places where I could find a bit of info about autism correlating with barefooting and it looks like a nice forum community here
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): Half a year ago
Favorite subjects: crafts
Favorite music: new medieval (or whatever it's called)
Books: (mature) fantasy. Favorite authors include: Terry Pratchett, Robin Hobb, Robert Jordan, Peter Schaap, Lynn Flewelling and Patrick Rothfuss
TV shows/Movies: Most Studio Ghibli movies, The boat that rocked, Black Books
Instrument: I'd love to one day play the marimba, and looking forward to learnig to play kantele. I kow my way a bit on the piano
Do you like sports? As long as it's no team sport and without attributes
Family: living with my partner (4 sisters)
Clothing: I mostly make my own from natural materials. The closest it comes to a known style is hippy
How did you find this website? looking for articles ab out autism and barefooting
Job: alround helper at a biological + vegetarian inn. But mostly gardener
Plans for the future? Filling my newly attained garden (just moved) with edible plants. Getting more proficient with the crafts I'm already familiar with (reading a 100 books a year with an avarage of 300 pages or more per book)
That's just what I am planning to do this year! We have lots of space on our land that we own since 2014 and I am about to fill it with tomatoes and pumpkins and zucchini and kale and so on... I don't have much gardening experience yet, though, so I expect to be making lots of mistakes
What is your first name? Raya
Age: 31
Location: Scandinavia
Hobbies and Interests:
writing, making music, learning new things (esp. languages), computers, bicycle, hiking, permaculture (organic gardening), foraging, botany, building stuff, inventing stuff I cannot build, reading, photography, quantum/astrophysics, psychology, philosophy, Rubik's cubes... and probably lots of other things I don't remember right now
Why are you here?
I'm hoping to find interesting people who are actually interested in talking to me, which is and undertaking I usually absolutely suck at (the people I enjoy talking to on a daily basis can be counted on the fingers of one hand).
I also want to find out more about Asperger's and see how people deal with certain problems
Favorite subjects:
Back then it was maths, physics, chemistry, all language classes, ethics (substitute for religion class), gym class (all but team sports), arts, music...
I wasn't always good at all of these subjects, though. It depended on the topic we were studying - I was very picky. I still am, that's probably why I still haven't been able to specialize in anything...
Year/Grade:
Effortlessly got my German high-school diploma, voluntarily dropped out of university after 5 years due to... personal issues I am still not quite clear about
Favorite music:
Too much to fit in here... mostly rock, alternative, Pink Floyd, L. Cohen, Muse, Queen, Grails, Rammstein, Deep Purple, Vaya Con Dios, Portishead... older Russian stuff I grew up with, G. Sviridov, S. Rachmaninoff, J. S. Bach, and whatever comes along and makes me like it.
Books:
"The Master and Margarita" (M. Bulgakov), stuff by Alastair Reynolds, stuff by Dazai Osamu, "Thinking, fast and slow" (Daniel Kahneman), Lermontov's poems, R. M. Rilke's poems, "Atlas shrugged" (A. Rand), stuff by Aldous Huxley, Philip Pullman, "Do androids dream of electric sheep" (Philip K. Dick), "War’s Unwomanly Face" (Svetlana Alexievich), the Bible ... and others I don't recall at the moment
TV shows/Movies:
Star Trek, Firefly, Elementary, Sherlock, Bones, Castle, The Mentalist, Doctor Who, Torchwood, How to get away with murder, The Big Bang Theory, Cowboy Bebop, Samurai Champloo, Ranma...
Blade Runner, James Bond, Batman, Indiana Jones, Star Wars, Good Will Hunting, Princess Mononoke, Moscow doesn't believe in tears, Nebesa obetovannye, Starye klyachi, Sorok Pervyj... and more...
Instrument:
Haven't mastered any, but can play the guitar, a little piano, a little accordion, and learning the violin... which I, probably, will never master, either
Do you like sports?
yes, if it has something to do with physical strength and nothing to do with teams.
Family:
Russian-German roots, great parents, great younger sister; whatever I did - my family always supported me. Great partner - possibly the only man in the world who is crazy enough to enjoy being around me for more than 13 years
Clothing:
Comfortable stuff most of the time. I might wear a dress for a birthday or Christmas or even to the cinema, and I might wear something with heels if they're under 5 cm, and I even might put on some eyeliner... but it always feels unnatural when I go out like this. Maybe I don't like being noticed all of a sudden just because of something I happen to wear at the moment; I don't know what to do with the attention one gets from strangers.
How did you find this website?
Was looking for information on Asperger's.
Job:
Freelance translator
Plans for the future?
Get our land to produce enough for the both of us so that we can eat our own fruits and vegetables all year long and never have to go to the supermarket again. Finish all the novels I've started. Learn more languages. Master at least one instrument. Oh yeah - and fix my head.
Any comments?
My greatest problem with myself is that I never, ever, ask for help when I really need it. And this fact has been sabotaging my life for years. It has also made me pretty strong - and a great faker - but you can only fake it so far. At some point, you break. And when you break, people get hurt. So I decided that I shall look for strategies to ... fix this somehow. Well... any advice is appreciated. I don't know whether I really have Asperger's, maybe I'm just missing something, maybe I just need to find this piece of the puzzle that will make my head function properly.
What I know is that I am not able to handle real emotions - they overwhelm me, so I tuck them away and don't let anyone touch them. I don't know how to deal with sad people, people in distress - I can offer them to try and solve their problem if they explain it to me, but I cannot offer them the comfort they probably need (I myself don't like being comforted). I avoid emotional situations at all cost, diverting from certain topics, putting on a happy face, lying and faking my way through the moment, trying to nip any impending collision of emotions in the bud, knowing very well that there IS an adult way to deal with all this, while desperately trying to ignore the fact that I have no idea as to WHAT this adult way may be. I'm actually pretty good at "reading the mind from the eyes" (I scored 31 out of 36 on that Baron-Cohen test, but it felt like I cheated since I determined several emotions by exclusion and almost none of them by pure intuition...), and I use this skill solely to get through the day smoothly, avoiding stressful people and situations. I even tend to avoid people who like me because they think that I'm good at something - their presumed expectation that I will do something great is just too much for me to shoulder, even if this expectation is just in my head - it feels too real to me, too heavy. I rather dissapoint them by burning all bridges than by not delivering something great... Some of my worst nightmares are those where I suddenly meet these people on the street and have to explain myself to them...
At the same time, I don't like being left alone with my own brain for too long... I like input, I like discussing interesting topics with people who are willing and able to skip the "social" part of the conversation - small talk, polite behaviour that doesn't reflect their true thoughts, waiting for me to say something specific that is part of the "social code", wanting me to guess whether they want something to drink or to eat...
When it comes to intellectual topics, honesty and earnest opinion are all I'm interested in. When it comes to emotions, it's the other way round - I fear honesty as if I could die from it.
TL;DR: My head is messed up and I cannot handle emotions - how do you people deal with it?
What is your first name? Vidar
Age: 24
Location: Norway
Hobbies and Interests: game development and other programming projects.
Why are you here? to see if someone writes something smart
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): A few days ago
Favorite subjects: programming, game design, computer vision(and other AI topics), entrepreneurship
Year/Grade: MSc student
Favorite music: daft punk, TV on the radio, other peoples playlists on spotify.
Books: Don't read fiction
TV shows/Movies: Many, many TV shows.
Instrument: nope(quit the baritone horn in 9th grade)
Do you like sports? F1, WRC, ++
Family: Very nice people I see at Christmas.
Clothing: yes, when I leave my room.
How did you find this website? Other forum
Job: Worked as a cab driver the past few summers, hopefully something more relevant to my studies this summer.
Plans for the future? Software engineering job or trying some entrepreneurship.
Any comments? PM me? I'll always answer.
Hello, I'm new here and this thread looked like a good place to start. Probably no one will read this post but I thought I'd join in anyway!
What is your first name? Jo
Age: 23
Location: UK
Hobbies and Interests: digital art, computers, the internet, urban legends, non-fiction books, documentaries, watching films and learning behind the scene stuff about how they were made, writing, going to comedy shows, learning about anything and everything
Why are you here? Mostly really looking to find out coping mechanisms and tips from other people who think in similar ways to me. I'm new to this diagnosis and looking to find out what works for me
When were you diagnosed? Diagnosed aspie at the very end of December last year, so still pretty new to me. Was diagnosed ADHD at the same time and dyspraxic earlier in the year, and was also diagnosed cyclothymic 3 years ago so I've got a whole bunch of annoying labels!
Favorite subjects: Not at school any more but am at uni now, studying art. My main interests to do with my course are digital art and the influence of the internet and technology on art production and the art world. I'm really interested in hyperreality and I myself make 3D animated abstract films mostly.
Year/Grade: 4th year of university
Favorite music: The White Stripes/Jack White have always been my favs since I was little, but I also like a big range of other music like Ratatat, Young Fathers, Crystal Fighters, Foxes, Opiuo, lots and lots really
Books: I like non fiction books, particularly about disproving urban legends or what I think are called 'pop science' books. I really like all of Jon Ronson's books too. If I read fiction it's mostly plays, I can't really manage novels.
TV shows/Movies: I like contemporary sorta sci-fi/super hero films like guardians of the galaxy, the fifth element, the amazing spiderman, things like that. The rest of what I like is really varied, I like the Great Gatsby, Factory Girl, The Boat That Rocked,..
Instrument: I don't play any (dyspraxia is part of the reason for this!)
Do you like sports? Not really!
Family: I have an older brother who I suspect is also aspie but is undiagnosed
Clothing: I have a habit of buying lots of clothes, I really like shopping. Most of my clothes are pink, fluffy, or have pictures of aliens on..!
How did you find this website? Actually found it when searching for aspergers jokes
Job: I work as a careers assistant at my university, I love it
Plans for the future? I'd like to train to be a careers advisor and get a job in a university, and get a nice house in the north of England with my other half
Any comments? I'm new to all this forum stuff but I'd like to see where it takes me. Hi anyone reading!
And why not.
What is your first name? My first name means Smith in English, it is a common Finnish name. You have to go Google.
Age: God granting, I will turn 62 next midsummer.
Location: Finland.
Hobbies and Interests: I study Biblical Hebrew and the Tanakh.
Why are you here? I found this site by chance.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): 2002
Favorite subjects: Mostly I play games in the Games forum. My English is not good enough for general talk.
Year/Grade: I have a degree from the University of Helsinki. Mathematics.
Favorite music: Old music.
Books: History, religion.
TV shows/Movies: I watch sport, icehockey. News.
Instrument: (none)
Do you like sports? See above. I watch icehockey, NHL and KHL.
And why not. Well, this question will not apply.
Family: Cat.
Clothing: What ever is next to clean.
How did you find this website? Chance.
Job: None. I am pensioned.
Plans for the future? Too old to plan.
Any comments? (*)
(*) I'd like to add that I drive a Volga, the famous Soviet Union car which goes through forests. It was designed for rough Siberian terrain where roads are rare.
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Finn. Male. Older than you. Me and my cat.
First Name?: Michael
Age: 25
Location: Central Florida
Hobbies and Interests: Activism, reading
Why are you here? I was diagnosed with ADD and social anxiety disorder and work as a paraprofessional in an ASD classroom.
When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorder): classified in preschool, diagnosed with ADD at about 7 years old, diagnosed with social anxiety disorder at about 18 years old.
Favorite subjects: feminism, social justice, history, world cultures, religion
Year/Grade: graduated with a BA double major in history and Women's and gender studies
Favorite music: folk rock
Books: nonfiction: feminism, LGBT/queer studies, history, Judaica, liberal/progressive/feminist Christianity, foreign language (Spanish, German, Hebrew, Yiddish), Americana, cultural studies
TV shows/Movies: Broad City, Seinfeld, Orange is the New Black, Democracy Now!
Instrument: none.
Do you like sports? No.
Family: ---
Clothing: ---
How did you find this website? I sear he'd for it.
Job: Teacher's Assistant
Plans for the future? To become a teacher and go to graduate school.
Any comments?