MissMary227 wrote:
I feel this way too at times, fairly frequently actually. I am sort-of all-or-nothing in that I feel really centered and content, then I vacillate and wonder how I am going to do this the rest of my life, alone.
I also dislike how people put more stock into blood kin than friendship/love kin. How people think it's okay to boast about being married a long time. What about those of us who lost their marriage? Do we want to hear you boast about how wonderfully long yours is? I don't, sorry.
I didn't do the GoT thing because I disliked some things about the story line from the get-go. I guess that's good now because I have heard the end wasn't so great.....
I was always freaked out about sci-fi stuff personally, but I am pretty transcendental minded/spiritual and I do like Star Trek. My escape lies in my own imagination, not that of others. I can imagine/act on some pretty wild ideas if they really take root.
Mostly, I have to say yes, yes, yes. Get the whole, "Why Travel?" thing. I am painfully alone, so going somewhere else alone feels worse. I do force myself to do some things not too far away that I enjoy like going to a lake, camping locally, eating out, etc., but why would I want to spend a ton of $ travelling to a distant land when I would have no one to share it with? I'd rather just work and stick to my routine.
~Peace
"I also dislike how people put more stock into blood kin than friendship/love kin." --- yes, disgusting how people justify their awful behavior by "caring for the family" and that justification is mostly accepted. In general, singles are seen as less valuable than "families". "Oh we shouldn't break families"
LeGuin I have mixed feelings about. Loved her "wizard of earthsea" but her space stuff was a bit too dry for my liking.
Game of thrones... simply put, there isn't a better show. Kinda like in the world where the best burger comes from Burger King, if you want a burger, you go to Burger King.