I am male, almost 40 and my wife insists that I have aspergers. I live on Vancouver Island off the west coast of north america. I have not had a diagnosis - in part because aspergers was not well known when I was a kid, and in part because I was well behaved and doing acceptably well in school. I dropped out of university partly due to my aversion to homework. I now have a stable job and am married. I had many years of hard slogging socially and career-wise up to now. My only blog relevant to apsergers is my blog section on WP.
Some random stuff that might be relevant to this topic:
I run my fingers through my hair (scratching my scalp) and pace a lot. I can not take the ferry to Vancouver (2 hrs on a crowded, loud, vibrating, moving ship) without pacing continuously.
I can smell when people have bacterial or fungal infections at a considerable distance but can't smell many flowers.
I wore beige almost exclusively for about 5 years.
I have detected a computer intrusion by the change in sound - the system had no speaker, fan, or hard drive (was a compactflash card). Also, I can diagnose some computer hardware problems by sound or sometimes smell.
I failed my first driving test because I looked straight ahead the whole time - the tester did not believe that I could percieve ahead, to the sides, and all 3 mirrors simultaneously. I did not understand why this was not normal.
Until recently I believed that I never understood bodylanguage or facial expressions because I badly needed glasses as a child and did not get them until I was 10 and so never learned.
This evening I am very tired because I spent the day doing intricate work in a store with mall music, store music, 2 TVs on and turned up, multiple conversations simultaneously, and people walking past and in and out of the store. (I'm pretty sure this would be tiring for NT's and spectrum folks alike)