Yup...I'm from the Jersey Shore. Grew up in Jackson (sort of inland but still 20-30 min from the beach). I've lived in Lakewood, Toms River, Point, Asbury, Belmar, Seaside Heights, and I currently live in Belford. My favorite beach is a little fishing beach towards the Barnegat Inlet end of Island Beach State Park, and I'd rather drive almost an hour to get there than the 10 minutes it takes me to get to Sandy Hook (way to many bennys, and I don't need to see the NYC skyline from the beach). I don't have a problem swimming in 58 degree water either....
I do like living on the Jersey Shore and I don't' have any intentions of leaving it....
What I don't like about the Shore all the traffic the bennys cause on the parkway, and how it's impossible to ever find parking anywhere near the beach on a weekend, even if you aren't actually going to the beach.. Oh, and I hate the clusterf**k on Route 36 that the Highlands bridge causes when it opens, and when Sandy Hook is closed due to overcrowding....and how I hate being asked the question "How do you get to the Parkway north?"
And don't even get me started on Seaside....or D'jais.
But all in all...I like living somewhere with all four seasons, and I think the Jersey shore is beautiful, and I understand why the bennys come down to visit. I'm just not a fan of the overcrowding. I look forward to an Indian summer in September or October to spend time at the beach...