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Hi everyone

I'm a new member, the parent of a 14 yr old Aspie, and I've signed up in the hope that I can get to know my son better, help him cope with life better, and overall be a better father, friend, and coach. We live in the Denver area (obviously) and he is in the 8th grade, in a public school, and struggles quite a bit with the logistics of getting to class prepared and on time. He's a great kid, got many gifts, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I've got a pretty realistic view of the challenges he faces, and I'm not out to fix anyone, just trying to take care of my family and help prepare him to lead an independent and happy life. He is my hero, as I admire all the hurdles he has cleared so far and the courage he has to face what can be a very cruel world every day. It is very frustrating for me not to be able to help him in many situations, but as you all probably well know, we all must travel our own path in life and learn our own lessons through experience.

One question I have is, how are NTs comments' typically received in these forums? It seems to me that most of these forums are written by Aspies for Aspies, and I feel like an outsider. How would you feel about me commenting in a respectful and civil manner on AS-specific questions and issues, that you may believe I have no clue about?

Lastly, many kudos to the developer of this site and the members, who have created a very safe, engaging, and valuable community.

Welcome to WP!

Hi DenvrDave,

Well done with your son, you sound like an ideal parent.

Regarding NT comments. WP is open and we're always happy to have NT comments, questions and answers (many of our best members are NT). I guess the things to stay away from are generalisations, stereotypes and cures - they always get us riled.

If you're respectful, you'll have no problems - and if you do have problems, contact one of the moderators.

Konnichiwa Dave-san, irrashai Rongupulanetsu.

(Sorry, it's my custom to welcome new members in Japanese, or the little I know of it.)

At any rate, NT's are more than welcome here. We believe that anyone who wishes to join WP for the purpose of learning more about AS when they dont even have it is a giant leap towards acceptance. All that we ask is that you play nice, be respectful and not infringe on other's rights to express an opinion. There's a list of Mods in the WP discussion forum, talk to them if you have any issues.

So you're from Colorado, ya? Nice to meet a neighbor, I just recently moved to Wyoming. The West is an awesome place, huh? I was going to be in Denver a few weeks ago for the Nan Desu Kan anime convention, but some things happened and I didnt go. Next year will be different, the Black Rebellion* will be in full swing once I get there. NIPPON BANZAI!

- Roxas

*anime reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Code_Geass

Welcome to WP

Your approach to working with your son reminds me a lot of myself. My little guy is technically in the 6th grade (but we started homeschooling a year ago) and I'm an Aspie myself. So it's been an interesting ride so far.

I agree with Gavin's thoughts about how NT's comments are taken around here. He gave you great advice. Jump in!

Nice to meet you, DenvrDave - welcome to the Wrong Planet community.