Hi, I'm new. I haven't been officially diagnosed with Asperger's but there's no doubt in my mind that I have it. I actually had never heard of it a few months ago, until my mother mentioned that she had read about it years ago and thought my older sister had it. She has no friends, a history of depression, is a MENSA member, lives with our parents and is currently unemployed. So I started reading about it and agreed it was definately my sister. It took awhile until it hit me that it perfectly described me as well. Realising I have Aspergers is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It sort of makes sense of my whole life. I've suffered serious depression since my early teens. My whole life I've always felt like I was wrong. I've always tried to make myself be like everyone else, and hated myself for failing. Now I realise that I'm not wrong, just different. Learning about Apergers and hearing from other people who have it, I feel much more comfortable with myself, and I also understand myself better than I ever have. For the first time I actually like myself and I don't feel like I have to be anything I'm not. This has come at a crucial time in my life too as I've finally, at 22 years old, decided what I want to do with my life, and am moving away from home and going to university this year. Altogether I feel happy for the first time.
I love the idea of being able to talk about things with other Aspies who understand and have similar weirdnesses. I love this site and I think it's so important to be able to share with each other.
By the way are there any Aussies here?