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bjmax31
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01 Jul 2006, 10:21 am

Hi my name is brett. i have the dreaded aspergers syndrome. I find it very difficult and frustrating just to converse (socaillise) excuse my spelling. I have very little freinds if not any. People condensend me (treat me like a child). and i am fed up!! ! :evil: :evil: :evil: even my so called freinds claimed that they are trying to help. When i try to converse with anybody i know ( 3-way conversation) i try to get my point across, they ignore me Very seldom i get a reply. So that makes me feel like the whole world is Ignoring me ( I know that sounds juvinille but that's how it is). am i unique or am i describing typical aspie traits.I have had numerous attempts to make freinds each ending in failure. I am feeling rather suicidal at the moment.

IS THERE ANY HELP FOR ME???

OR AM TYPING MY OWN EULOGY???



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01 Jul 2006, 11:27 am

Sssh calm down. You've come to the right place. Besides people are like that with me as well. You are not the only one. Welcome anyways.



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01 Jul 2006, 1:15 pm

Hi. Please don't give up.



ryansjoy
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01 Jul 2006, 7:32 pm

never give up.. i would say that those friends are not worth having. i know how hard it is to find friends when you have AS. i know how hard it is to realte to my son who has AS.. but true friends and family never give up.. they try to make you see the light.. so please keep on plugging along.. it may seem horrible now but later you might see things different. I always tell my son its not his issue that people don't understand him its their problem. if someone is that shallow and want it all one sided their way then you deserve better than this. people who have little tolerance and understanding for someone who they think is their friend then they are no friends at all. I tell my son he is the real person.. these people are fake users. you as he is are too good.. you think better than them. you require intelligent conversation not fake mellowdrama.

Colleen



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01 Jul 2006, 11:48 pm

Please feel welcome and at home at WP.



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02 Jul 2006, 10:31 am

Welcome to Wrong Planet.
As you are feeling down at the moment, you might find interesting posts in 'The Haven' topic somewhere else on this forum.