Hi and welcome. I also have an 11 year old son with AS.
Just a word of caution here - you've listed your name, city, state and that you have four boys on an internet site, on a thread that anyone browsing by can read. Just an fyi. One episode of dateline ought to be all it takes.
Interesting that someone said your other children may eventually be dx'd? Are they younger, are they displaying any behaviors that would indicate a spectrum disorder?
Hi again.
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