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rastachucker
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22 Jan 2011, 7:02 pm

hello I am new wrong planet so I thought that I would use what I am posting as a way to say hi and get some advice as well. I am a Bisexual alcoholic with aspergers syndrome. My whole life seem like it can summed up just by those two words aspergers syndrome. For my whole life seems to stems from the fact that I seem unable to have successful relationships with other people. I tried very hard over these last few years to be the kind of person I would think others would like to be around. I have even gone to aa and tried to the best I could to do what they suggest there in hopes of finding a life rich and meaningful. It seems like most of my friendships seems to be short lived and when it seems like this time things will actually be different and this time people will stay and that this time people will stay it be like that for a moment before it comes crashing down again and I find myself alone again. This seems to happen rather I have been drinking or in a period of sobriety. I wanted so much change what can about myself so that I can fit in and be with others but how can change that which I cannot see? I know some of the things that I do to alienate people from my life but not all of them and a lot them seem lie outside my vision and cannot seem to see why that person left I what I did to push them away and it also seems like the people that do stick around for longer than 5 minutes do not seem to be like the friendships that others have in fact it seems that they are more there to listen to me talk about me for the time we are on the phone. I not one to get invited out to coffee or to the movies on a Saturday. Most of the time what I do I do alone. I think that if there is successful way to treat it. Like AA great at sobering up the drunks but what about the apsie how to heal them or at least make them to point where there better able to fin in with others. If you can tell me how to fix me I will do anything just to be out the real world and not look of sheer rejections because people do not understand what wrong wrong with me. I seem to like alien and I have never found my people anywhere. Please help me.



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22 Jan 2011, 7:44 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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22 Jan 2011, 8:16 pm

Hello!



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22 Jan 2011, 9:31 pm

Welcome to the Wrong Planet community, rastachucker.


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22 Jan 2011, 10:06 pm

Thanks guys glad to be here. Look I want help and know that there is away of getting better from this thing and a way to interact with people so that do not leave your life shortly after knowing you because that is what I really want to know maybe not so much of cure but away to live successfully with this and be able to have things like friendships loves? I truly do not understand what makes me so different from the rest of the world only know that I am. I was wondering if anybody had any success with meds or professional help that has been helpful to the point where they do not find that there getting into trouble when trying to do good and how to hold on to people once they are have a few who are willing to be there lives. I would do anything go anywhere as long as it did not take cash to solve the problem as money is tight and cannot afford to pay anyone right now. Thank you please help.



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23 Jan 2011, 9:33 am

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23 Jan 2011, 8:47 pm

Welkome to WrongPlanet. :)

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