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TheOtherMe
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03 Aug 2011, 12:32 pm

I have written a few comments here and there, and initially decided not to write an introduction, but I changed my mind.
I don't know what to write here now that I started writing.
Umm, I am in my 30's and a woman living in Finland. I am in a long-term relationship with a man who is a "people-person", no children.
I actually explained the reasons why I came here in another post previously.

Ok, I know I'm not a NT (But who is, really?). My biggest problem is faking around people because I don't want to make them angry. (Told about that too in another post)
I really really like my mind, I am more zoned out than zoned in nowadays, which makes me a real zombie. (And health care want's me on risperidal, wtf?)

Oh, never mind, I just wanted to write "Hello! I came here to seek support of people who are very much the same that I am."
I don't want to care if I have as/hfa/add, but I do, which alienated me from here after I discovered this, because I didn't want to be influenced by descriptions of asd. Now I feel that I am going to give this forumizing a shot and if I feel better after discussing stuff here than before, great. If not, I'm off.

I just don't want to bother people with my problems, I know people in real life hate it. At least many of them do. But if I am here to solve my problems, I suppose I need to talk about them, not just read what other people say.
Hmm, I'll try blogging some information later.
Blog: thesecretlifeoftheothermeDOTblogspotDOTcom



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03 Aug 2011, 12:41 pm

Welcome, TheOtherMe. I live in Finland, too.


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03 Aug 2011, 12:51 pm

Hi, I used to read and occasionally write on a finnish forum, aspalsta, but I found out that when I am writing in finnish, I am not that honest to myself as when I'm writing in english.
I feel that I am more of myself when I write and think in english. It kinda gives me enough distance to see who I really am.



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03 Aug 2011, 1:21 pm

TheOtherMe wrote:
Hi, I used to read and occasionally write on a finnish forum, aspalsta, but I found out that when I am writing in finnish, I am not that honest to myself as when I'm writing in english.
I feel that I am more of myself when I write and think in english. It kinda gives me enough distance to see who I really am.


I used to write there, too. But it is easier to be here. Recently I tried to log in there, but I guess it has been too long since my last visit, and I was unable to log in any more.


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03 Aug 2011, 1:27 pm

And I like that here is more people posting, so this is not so personal. It was such an inside-forum and that I just couldn't join the "team". And they were fighting all the time about nothing or about stuff they didn't share with the rest of us. They even closed the forum from new people for months because of serious trolling.



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03 Aug 2011, 3:20 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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03 Aug 2011, 3:24 pm

Hello there, TheOtherMe and welcome to WP. :)



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03 Aug 2011, 5:20 pm

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03 Aug 2011, 10:05 pm

Welcome to WP! Finland sounds nice!


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