welcome
i am 44 and recdently diagnosed with AS.
i am quite content with the fact.
the condition is not progessively worsening as other illnesses.
you have it or don't
it helps my wife understand why i am different, but still the person she loves. AS in and of itself does not require treatment but some symptoms of co-existing conditions may benefit from treatment. from my understanding of AS, altho i may be wrong.
i do have anxiety, and depression issues which benefit from support and treatment.
my life has benefited from AS, in particular my ability to concentrate to a high level on topics at work or home,. focus like a laser on issues. as well colleagues find my complete lack of knowledge regarding social interactions a relief, when they come to me for advice on various topics.
i only focus on the issue they ask about, stripped of all areas such as what if he, what if she, what will they feel and such. in return i ask coleagues questions of social etiquette when faced with such issues.